James 1:12 - "Blessed is the man who endures trials. For once he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life, which the Lord has promised to those who love Him."
This is the verse under meditation today (extreme faith workout - www.gbcwestlake.org)
There are several verses that deal with one aspect of this particular verse in James: the crown of life. A start to studying this is to look up some verses and see what they say. Here is my part:
I Corinthians 9:25 - "Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable." - The perishable wreath, was a reward for the athlete, in their games, to receive once they won and stood above the rest. The imperishable wreath, or crown, would be the crown of life, which is eternal, never passing away, given to those who finish the race well.
I Thessalonians 2:19,20 - "For what is our hope or joy or crown of boasting before our Lord Jesus at his coming? Is it not you? For you are our glory and joy." - The Apostle Paul talks about the eternal perspective of what is truly important. The crown he speaks of is the eternal souls and spiritual growth of the people he is writing to. Their growth and decision to follow Christ is his crown."
II Timothy 4:8 - "Henceforth there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on the Day, and not only to me but also to all who have loved his appearing." - The crown of righteousness also gives the eternal perspective. We are not striving for rewards here, but for what is given when this life is over. The goal is to be able to say what Paul did in the previous verse (7): "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, i have kept the faith."
I Peter 5:4 - "And when the chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory." - This was written to elders, exhorting them to follow God's example as a good shepherd, having the right attitude and leading the sheep. If they did, they may not receive many rewards in this life; but they would when they see the Good Shepherd in Heaven. That is motivation for being faithful now.
Revelation 2:10 - "Do not fear what you are about to suffer. Behold, the devil is about to throw some of you into prison, that you may be tested, and for ten days you will have tribulation. Be faithful unto death, and I will give you the crown of life." - For those who would suffer for their faith, even to the point of death, Jesus wants them to think of eternity, and the promise of life, abundant life, true life, life with Him, when this short, trial filled life on Earth is over.
Friday, April 30, 2010
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Day 10 - what I am learning
It is a good exercise, to meditate on, and then to write out scriptures in your own words. It helps you to really think about what it is saying and how to communicate it to others. In my own words:
James 1:9-11 - If you are struggling financially, you can rejoice as a believer who is in a high position before God. If you are doing well financially, you can rejoice in trials that God uses to make you humble and sensitive to others needs. Because the person who trusts in his wealth will be soon gone and all he has built up will be gone. It comes and then disappears quickly. Don't pursue wealth. Regardless of your trials, pursue endurance; for at then end of these trials, at the end of this short life, is eternal life and rewards with God!
What have I learned through recent trials I have gone through?
1. Trusting in man is futile. Only God can be trusted
2. The important thing is not having some type of personal victory over others, but victory over sin, and growing spiritually through a trial
3. There is always, always, a reason to praise God and give Him glory!
James 1:9-11 - If you are struggling financially, you can rejoice as a believer who is in a high position before God. If you are doing well financially, you can rejoice in trials that God uses to make you humble and sensitive to others needs. Because the person who trusts in his wealth will be soon gone and all he has built up will be gone. It comes and then disappears quickly. Don't pursue wealth. Regardless of your trials, pursue endurance; for at then end of these trials, at the end of this short life, is eternal life and rewards with God!
What have I learned through recent trials I have gone through?
1. Trusting in man is futile. Only God can be trusted
2. The important thing is not having some type of personal victory over others, but victory over sin, and growing spiritually through a trial
3. There is always, always, a reason to praise God and give Him glory!
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Day 9 - 3 thoughts on James
One of the challenges for today (extreme faith workout - www.gbcwestlake.org)
was to read the book of James in one sitting and then to write down 3 thoughts that come to mind. So here are mine:
1. If we want to say that we are truly following Christ, then we will be sensitive to the true physical needs of others and use our resoureces to meet those needs (1:27; 2:14-17)
2. True wisdom is not found in how much someone knows, but in how they act on that knowledge (3:15-18)
3.Every fight and argument I have with someone can be traced back to my own selfish heart. Below the surface of the issue that I am so upset about is the real heart issue: my own (4:1-6)
was to read the book of James in one sitting and then to write down 3 thoughts that come to mind. So here are mine:
1. If we want to say that we are truly following Christ, then we will be sensitive to the true physical needs of others and use our resoureces to meet those needs (1:27; 2:14-17)
2. True wisdom is not found in how much someone knows, but in how they act on that knowledge (3:15-18)
3.Every fight and argument I have with someone can be traced back to my own selfish heart. Below the surface of the issue that I am so upset about is the real heart issue: my own (4:1-6)
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Day 8 - value of wisdom
James 1:5 - "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all men generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him."
In connection with my trials, I have to have wisdom from God in order to endure through them. It is a blessing to know that God is willing and ready to give it to me, without condemnation, in abundance, if I will just ask. I don't know how to handle trials in my own strength. I must have God's wisdom to navigate them.
Proverbs 2:1-17 is all about the pursuit of wisdom and its benefits. The motivation for pursuing wisdom includes: seeing it as though you are searching for hidden treasure. The same effort we would give for finding gold or silver in our backyard should be matched and even greater, to find the wisdom from God; if we seek for it, it will help us understand God to a greater degree; and put us in a better position to receive all that God has promised.
The benefits for having wisdom include: the knowledge of God being sweeter; a better understanding of justice and what it means to be righteous; the protection of God; guidance through life; deliverance from the consequences of wickedness.
May I have the heart to pursue God's wisdom in this way!
In connection with my trials, I have to have wisdom from God in order to endure through them. It is a blessing to know that God is willing and ready to give it to me, without condemnation, in abundance, if I will just ask. I don't know how to handle trials in my own strength. I must have God's wisdom to navigate them.
Proverbs 2:1-17 is all about the pursuit of wisdom and its benefits. The motivation for pursuing wisdom includes: seeing it as though you are searching for hidden treasure. The same effort we would give for finding gold or silver in our backyard should be matched and even greater, to find the wisdom from God; if we seek for it, it will help us understand God to a greater degree; and put us in a better position to receive all that God has promised.
The benefits for having wisdom include: the knowledge of God being sweeter; a better understanding of justice and what it means to be righteous; the protection of God; guidance through life; deliverance from the consequences of wickedness.
May I have the heart to pursue God's wisdom in this way!
Monday, April 26, 2010
Day 7 - summary of trials
This is the 2nd week of the extreme faith workout (www.gbcwestlake.org)
One of the assignments, today, was to look at two different passages of Scripture that deal with trials, and then summarize each of them in 30 words or less. This helps me to think through the passages, and then write briefly, including the main points. This is how these struck me:
James 1:1-12
Trials will come, to test my faith; and if I will endure, asking God for wisdom, I will grow spiritually, receiving eternal rewards. Therefore, I can rejoice in my suffering.
I Peter 1:3-9
God gets all the glory for my eternal life. The suffering I go through is to make me what He wants me to be and to bring Him the glory.
One of the assignments, today, was to look at two different passages of Scripture that deal with trials, and then summarize each of them in 30 words or less. This helps me to think through the passages, and then write briefly, including the main points. This is how these struck me:
James 1:1-12
Trials will come, to test my faith; and if I will endure, asking God for wisdom, I will grow spiritually, receiving eternal rewards. Therefore, I can rejoice in my suffering.
I Peter 1:3-9
God gets all the glory for my eternal life. The suffering I go through is to make me what He wants me to be and to bring Him the glory.
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Day 6 - a commitment statement
I know it is dangerous to "swear" something, even according to James - to promise to do something, as it relates to God, and then to not follow through with it. It is better not to make such a promise in the first place. So, with this commitment statement, that is included in the extreme faith workout for applying the book of James (www.gbcwestlake.org), it is important to be communicated as a desire, trying to pursue it with God's help. Here is my statement:
It is my desire to approach trials in a godly and biblical way. When something difficult happens in my life (and this includes even "smaller" things), I first need to evaluate my heart and ask God if "there is any unconfessed sin", for which I am under discipline. After that, I need to apply the truths in the book of James. This is my commitment:
I will work hard to see my trials in a joyful way, because I know that God has allow them to make me more like His Son. I will not try to "handle them" in my own power, but I will cry out to God and ask for His wisdom, so that I can "remain under" (endure) through the trials. I will not make it my highest priority to get out of the pain, but to grow in Christ through the pain.
It is my desire to approach trials in a godly and biblical way. When something difficult happens in my life (and this includes even "smaller" things), I first need to evaluate my heart and ask God if "there is any unconfessed sin", for which I am under discipline. After that, I need to apply the truths in the book of James. This is my commitment:
I will work hard to see my trials in a joyful way, because I know that God has allow them to make me more like His Son. I will not try to "handle them" in my own power, but I will cry out to God and ask for His wisdom, so that I can "remain under" (endure) through the trials. I will not make it my highest priority to get out of the pain, but to grow in Christ through the pain.
Friday, April 23, 2010
Day 5 - in my own words
One of the challenges for today (extreme faith workout - www.gbcwestlake.org) is to write out James 1:1-4 in my own words. This is a great exercise for thinking through a passage of Scripture, but it is not necessarily easy, as you can't just copy the words of the text. It also includes meditating on the passage, so that you are thinking about what it means. My version:
James 1:1-4
I am James, Jesus' brother, serving Him and serving God our Father; writing to Jewish Christians scattered through the Roman Empire - HI!
When you go through difficult trials (and you will), which come in all shapes and sizes (and degrees of pain), be joyful.
Be joyful because of the fact that your faith is being tested, and that can produce endurance.
Then, you must remain under your difficult circumstances, in order to get the best results: a more full and complete faith, even spiritual maturity.
James 1:1-4
I am James, Jesus' brother, serving Him and serving God our Father; writing to Jewish Christians scattered through the Roman Empire - HI!
When you go through difficult trials (and you will), which come in all shapes and sizes (and degrees of pain), be joyful.
Be joyful because of the fact that your faith is being tested, and that can produce endurance.
Then, you must remain under your difficult circumstances, in order to get the best results: a more full and complete faith, even spiritual maturity.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Day 4 - a summary of James 1
On the extreme faith workout at: www.gbcwestlake.org today's challenge included writing a summary of James 1. The reason this was included is because when you write a summary, you have to first think about what you have read; and then, you have to think even more to summarize it into words. You can read something, and it may or may not enter your mind or heart. If you have to summarize something, you will have to engage your mind, and you have a better chance of it penetrating your heart, as you are meditating on the truth.
James 1: my summary
Trials, although extremely difficult for me, are a good thing. They are God's gift to me, sent to strengthen my faith and aid in my spiritual growth. If I will remain under them, and let God do His work, I will grow in spiritual maturity.
As I go through trials and strive to endure, I will need God's wisdom in order to do so. I must ask Him, fully believing that He will give it to me, in order to endure all trials. Part of that wisdom is knowing that the pursuit of riches is a vapor and will bring no wisdom or help in spiritual growth.
When I give in to temptation, and sin, I have no one to blame but myself. It is all about the lust within my own heart, not about the difficult circumstances I am going through.
The key is how I respond to the truths of the Word of God. I must not have pride or anger in response, but a humility that submits myself to God's truth. That includes, not just listening or reading or studying it, but putting it into action. In order to do so, I must continually look at myself, evaluate my heart, in the mirror of God's Word, and respond accordingly.
True religion is when our humble response to God's truth is demonstrated by reaching out in love to those in true need.
James 1: my summary
Trials, although extremely difficult for me, are a good thing. They are God's gift to me, sent to strengthen my faith and aid in my spiritual growth. If I will remain under them, and let God do His work, I will grow in spiritual maturity.
As I go through trials and strive to endure, I will need God's wisdom in order to do so. I must ask Him, fully believing that He will give it to me, in order to endure all trials. Part of that wisdom is knowing that the pursuit of riches is a vapor and will bring no wisdom or help in spiritual growth.
When I give in to temptation, and sin, I have no one to blame but myself. It is all about the lust within my own heart, not about the difficult circumstances I am going through.
The key is how I respond to the truths of the Word of God. I must not have pride or anger in response, but a humility that submits myself to God's truth. That includes, not just listening or reading or studying it, but putting it into action. In order to do so, I must continually look at myself, evaluate my heart, in the mirror of God's Word, and respond accordingly.
True religion is when our humble response to God's truth is demonstrated by reaching out in love to those in true need.
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Day 3 - A Testing of Your Faith
In the first 4 verses of James, we find out that the reason God allows trials in our lives is to test our faith. One great example of that in the Bible is the story of Abraham, in Genesis 22. Earlier in Genesis (chapters 12,15,17), God promised Abraham that He would give Him a son, and through that son would come a nation of people, eventually known as the nation of Israel. It took a long time to receive that promise of a son through Sarah, but God kept His promise, and Isaac was born.
But, then we read in Genesis 22:1: "...God tested Abraham..."
How did He test him? By asking him to go up a mountain, lay his son (the promised son, Isaac) on an altar, and then offer him as a sacrifice (kill him)! Why in the world would God ask that of him? The Bible says: God was testing His faith. He was not playing mind games with him, or just fooling around. This was serious: God was proving Abraham's faith and Abraham was going to grow through this experience. God spared Isaac, but the point was made: Abraham was willing to follow in faith:
Hebrews 11:17-19 - "By faith Abraham, when he was tested, offered up Isaac, and he who had received the promises was in the act of offering up his only son, of whom it was said, Through Isaac shall your offspring be named. he considered that God was able even to raise him from the dead."
This didn't make much human sense, that God would ask Abraham to kill his own son. But, instead of doubting, Abraham believed that God would still keep His promises, even if it meant raising Isaac back from the dead. Many times, my trials don't make much human sense to me. I must put it back in God's hands. I must just humbly obey, knowing, believing that God knows what He is doing. I trust Him.
But, then we read in Genesis 22:1: "...God tested Abraham..."
How did He test him? By asking him to go up a mountain, lay his son (the promised son, Isaac) on an altar, and then offer him as a sacrifice (kill him)! Why in the world would God ask that of him? The Bible says: God was testing His faith. He was not playing mind games with him, or just fooling around. This was serious: God was proving Abraham's faith and Abraham was going to grow through this experience. God spared Isaac, but the point was made: Abraham was willing to follow in faith:
Hebrews 11:17-19 - "By faith Abraham, when he was tested, offered up Isaac, and he who had received the promises was in the act of offering up his only son, of whom it was said, Through Isaac shall your offspring be named. he considered that God was able even to raise him from the dead."
This didn't make much human sense, that God would ask Abraham to kill his own son. But, instead of doubting, Abraham believed that God would still keep His promises, even if it meant raising Isaac back from the dead. Many times, my trials don't make much human sense to me. I must put it back in God's hands. I must just humbly obey, knowing, believing that God knows what He is doing. I trust Him.
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
DAY 2 - Extreme Faith Workout
This morning, I am pumped up. Why, you ask? Two things. First, I spent time with God, in prayer and reading through the book of James. I am taking the challenge that I have given everyone in our church, as we work through the book of James. It is the extreme faith workout, which can be found at www.gbcwestlake.org
So, first, I have been challenge, already, by the book of James, especially the passages in chapter 3 that speak about the tongue; and as I have begun preparing to preach on James 1:5-12 this coming Sunday, I am seeing the connection between the use of our tongues and the application of true wisdom. The purpose of our church fits very well into what can be accomplished in James: helping people take the next step in their spiritual journey.
The second thing I am pumped up about this morning is that I just a had a meeting with a guy who is interested in men's ministry. God has placed it on his heart that he wants a place for men to go, where they can share their lives with one another and grow together in Christ. That fires me up!
God is at work: in me, in some individuals, in our church.
I just want to be a part of what God is doing.
And one of the main things I can do, is to make sure that, every day, I am pursuing Christ and taking my next step toward Him.
So, first, I have been challenge, already, by the book of James, especially the passages in chapter 3 that speak about the tongue; and as I have begun preparing to preach on James 1:5-12 this coming Sunday, I am seeing the connection between the use of our tongues and the application of true wisdom. The purpose of our church fits very well into what can be accomplished in James: helping people take the next step in their spiritual journey.
The second thing I am pumped up about this morning is that I just a had a meeting with a guy who is interested in men's ministry. God has placed it on his heart that he wants a place for men to go, where they can share their lives with one another and grow together in Christ. That fires me up!
God is at work: in me, in some individuals, in our church.
I just want to be a part of what God is doing.
And one of the main things I can do, is to make sure that, every day, I am pursuing Christ and taking my next step toward Him.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Day 1 - A new beginning
Today begins the Extreme Faith Workout, to which I have challenged myself and my congregation, as we work through the book of James together. If you would like to read more about it, you can get there on our church website: www.gbcwestlake.org
I realize that if I expect anyone else to grow in their faith during this time, I must be the first one to step forward and do the same. I know how easy it is, even as a pastor, to get right into ministry work, and not prepare my heart with God before hand. This will help me apply what I am learning and teaching, even as I encourage others to put these things into practice. If nothing else good comes from this, it will be all worth it if I grow in Christ during these next several months.
One challenge I put out there for this series was to memorize the book of James. That may seem daunting, but with a little bit of time every day, it is doable, even for us "old folks"! I memorized this book about 20 years ago, and I challenged myself to re-memorize it during this series. James has always been one of my favorite books of the Bible. It is right to the point. It challenges me to put what knowledge I already have into real action. It doesn't allow me to use the excuse of having a belief in God for not living the right way, toward God and others. James holds us accountable. Of course, it is truly God's Spirit, through His own word, that holds us accountable.
I enjoyed my study this morning, and look forward to what God has in store for me these months. Will you join me?
I realize that if I expect anyone else to grow in their faith during this time, I must be the first one to step forward and do the same. I know how easy it is, even as a pastor, to get right into ministry work, and not prepare my heart with God before hand. This will help me apply what I am learning and teaching, even as I encourage others to put these things into practice. If nothing else good comes from this, it will be all worth it if I grow in Christ during these next several months.
One challenge I put out there for this series was to memorize the book of James. That may seem daunting, but with a little bit of time every day, it is doable, even for us "old folks"! I memorized this book about 20 years ago, and I challenged myself to re-memorize it during this series. James has always been one of my favorite books of the Bible. It is right to the point. It challenges me to put what knowledge I already have into real action. It doesn't allow me to use the excuse of having a belief in God for not living the right way, toward God and others. James holds us accountable. Of course, it is truly God's Spirit, through His own word, that holds us accountable.
I enjoyed my study this morning, and look forward to what God has in store for me these months. Will you join me?
Saturday, April 17, 2010
AN EXTREME FAITH WORKOUT
In preparing for my messages on the book of James (beginning April 18th), it struck me that James is all about the stretching and strengthening and the use of our faith. Although there are things to learn, doctrinally, from the book of James, it is primarily a book that challenges us to do what we already know, rather than gain more knowledge for the sake of knowledge. So, the thought hit me: why don't we put the same kind of time, energy, focus and commitment into our spiritual growth as we do into a diet and exercise program? I know many people, including myself, who have given themselves for a period of time, to gett in better physical shape. During those days of commitment, everything else becomes secondary to the program we have entered.
I thought, that during my series in the book of James, I would challenge myself and my congregation to enter an extreme faith workout, based on the book of James. My intention is to make it flexible enough, so that those taking their very first steps in spiritual disciplines can benefit, as well as those who have been Christians a long time, have "been there done that" and are looking for a greater challenge.
I plan to blog all along the way, about my own thoughts and experiences while studying and living out the book of James. If you would like to be involved, you can listen to the messages, as well as look at the extreme faith workout challenges on our church website: www.gbcwestlake.org This should be up and running by Sunday, April 18th.
I thought, that during my series in the book of James, I would challenge myself and my congregation to enter an extreme faith workout, based on the book of James. My intention is to make it flexible enough, so that those taking their very first steps in spiritual disciplines can benefit, as well as those who have been Christians a long time, have "been there done that" and are looking for a greater challenge.
I plan to blog all along the way, about my own thoughts and experiences while studying and living out the book of James. If you would like to be involved, you can listen to the messages, as well as look at the extreme faith workout challenges on our church website: www.gbcwestlake.org This should be up and running by Sunday, April 18th.
Monday, April 12, 2010
Richer Than Tiger
As the Masters Golf tournament played out this weekend, the thought came to my mind: What do I have in common with Tiger Woods? Then, the idea shifted to: Do I have anything that Tiger doesn't have? And this morning, I settled on one thing, in which I think I exceed Tiger: I am richer than he is. How can that be, you might ask?
- In golf, he is a great professional, and I am a hacker - but I am richer than Tiger
- We were both wearing red shirts yesterday - but I am richer than Tiger
- We both have sexual sin in our past. I have confessed and repented, receiving forgiveness from God and my wife. I am richer than Tiger.
- He has a lot of endorsements, still, and I have none - but I am richer than Tiger
- He is trusting in a religion from his youth, in which he finds strength. I am trusting in a person , who died for my sins and rose from the dead over 2,000 years ago, and who still lives today. I am richer than Tiger.
- I am not better than Tiger - just richer
- I am 100% certain, that when this life is over, I will inherit eternal life; not because of me, but because of the finished work of Christ. I don't claim to be morally superior to Tiger - just richer
- Tiger is famous, and I am not - just richer
- Tiger can do pretty much anything he would like to do, because of his material wealth. But, I am still richer, because true wealth has nothing to do with money.
True riches are found in grace, mercy, love, forgiveness and in following Jesus Christ. It is not found in what can be gained in this life, but in being prepared for the life to come. I do not claim to be a better man than Tiger. I think he is an excellent golfer. He has a life that many envy. I don't. I have everything I need, and more. I am the richest man alive. I'm not better - just richer.
Thursday, April 8, 2010
UNLUCKY 64 (or is it 65)
I still don't believe in luck, but if I did, I would believe in the bad part of luck, rather than the good. Each year, in March, I get ready for one of the best sports times of the year: March Madness; that is, the Division I Men's college basketball tournament of 64 teams (or 65, depending on who you ask. Read someone else's blog for that explanation). As I wrote before, I love, especially, the idea of upsets, the underdogs beating some of the better teams. This year's tournament did not disappoint, as there were many upsets, and no one predicted a final game between Duke and Butler, ending in a 2 point game (the closest margin in years). I was satisfied...almost.
The worst part of the tournament happened before the tournament ever got started. I thought it would be a fun, family activity, to have everyone in my family, all 7 of us, pick the games, just like I do before the tournament begins. We could make it a competition. Of course, I knew it couldn't be much of a competition, since in my family, I know everything about basketball, and the rest of my family knows, pretty much, nothing. But, at least we could all have "fun", while they are amazed at my incredible picks, and I console them for picking all the losers to win.
So, a couple nights before the tournament begin, I handed out brackets to everyone and the process was under way. I helped my family pronounce some of the names, told them who the mascots were, and even what color uniforms they wore. I did my best to inform them of what the seeding system meant, that they should never pick a 16 seed to beat a 1, and that, normally, the higher seeds win. There are always upsets, and the trick is trying to figure out who would do it. It did take a while, but I thought it was relatively fun watching them all fill out the brackets and answering the innumerable questions they had.
I felt great about my picks and my eventual family championship. I told the family there would be prizes; but I decided to wait until I won, before deciding what my prize would be! Well, the tournament has been over, now, since this past Monday night, and since I am just now getting around to blogging about it, you can, perhaps, guess what happened. Consider the title of this entry.
Do you want to take a wild guess as to what place I finished, out of the 7 in our family? That's right...dead last. LAST! Can you believe it? That means my 9 year old twins, my 10 year old daughter, my 14 year old twins (now 15), and even my wife, who doesn't watch basketball - they all beat me, and not just by a little bit. They crushed me. I hang my head in shame, all the while making excuses, of course, for my turn of "bad luck." This should not be allowed to happen. I have played sports, especially basketball, all of my life. It just doesn't seem right that a woman, who knows more about broccoli than basketball should be able to out pick me. That should be outlawed.
O.k. I got it out. I feel better now. I just have to remember what is most important in all of this, right? Like having fun with the family, and seeing them enjoy beating their old dad, right? I can just smile, and laught, and let me be a good family memory. I don't think so. The important lesson here is overconfidence. That's what it was - overconfidence. I now enter the "off season" training time for picking the NCAA tournament - with focus and determination. I can start gathering my statistics, scouting all the teams for next year, and reading up on all the preseason magazines. I will also take advantage of all of my resources, including the ability to confuse my children in explaining next year's competition, changing all the rules, and of course, the big one: bribing them with candy, to pick all the losers. My luck (which I don't believe in), is about to change. I can feel it: 2011 is my year!
The worst part of the tournament happened before the tournament ever got started. I thought it would be a fun, family activity, to have everyone in my family, all 7 of us, pick the games, just like I do before the tournament begins. We could make it a competition. Of course, I knew it couldn't be much of a competition, since in my family, I know everything about basketball, and the rest of my family knows, pretty much, nothing. But, at least we could all have "fun", while they are amazed at my incredible picks, and I console them for picking all the losers to win.
So, a couple nights before the tournament begin, I handed out brackets to everyone and the process was under way. I helped my family pronounce some of the names, told them who the mascots were, and even what color uniforms they wore. I did my best to inform them of what the seeding system meant, that they should never pick a 16 seed to beat a 1, and that, normally, the higher seeds win. There are always upsets, and the trick is trying to figure out who would do it. It did take a while, but I thought it was relatively fun watching them all fill out the brackets and answering the innumerable questions they had.
I felt great about my picks and my eventual family championship. I told the family there would be prizes; but I decided to wait until I won, before deciding what my prize would be! Well, the tournament has been over, now, since this past Monday night, and since I am just now getting around to blogging about it, you can, perhaps, guess what happened. Consider the title of this entry.
Do you want to take a wild guess as to what place I finished, out of the 7 in our family? That's right...dead last. LAST! Can you believe it? That means my 9 year old twins, my 10 year old daughter, my 14 year old twins (now 15), and even my wife, who doesn't watch basketball - they all beat me, and not just by a little bit. They crushed me. I hang my head in shame, all the while making excuses, of course, for my turn of "bad luck." This should not be allowed to happen. I have played sports, especially basketball, all of my life. It just doesn't seem right that a woman, who knows more about broccoli than basketball should be able to out pick me. That should be outlawed.
O.k. I got it out. I feel better now. I just have to remember what is most important in all of this, right? Like having fun with the family, and seeing them enjoy beating their old dad, right? I can just smile, and laught, and let me be a good family memory. I don't think so. The important lesson here is overconfidence. That's what it was - overconfidence. I now enter the "off season" training time for picking the NCAA tournament - with focus and determination. I can start gathering my statistics, scouting all the teams for next year, and reading up on all the preseason magazines. I will also take advantage of all of my resources, including the ability to confuse my children in explaining next year's competition, changing all the rules, and of course, the big one: bribing them with candy, to pick all the losers. My luck (which I don't believe in), is about to change. I can feel it: 2011 is my year!
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
LUCKY 13
I don't really believe in luck, but I thought it was a good title for this entry, so...there you go.
It was 13 years ago (April, 1997) that Teresa and I received a phone call from an adoption agency in New Hampshire. They shared with us the story of 2 children (twins!) who had been born in Romania in 1995. Their birth mother had died shortly after giving birth (within 2 months) and their father, a Romanian shepherd, placed them in an orphanage. A doctor's family from New Jersey brought them over to the United States 6 months prior to us receiving a phone call.
The doctor's family came to believe that God had them pay for everything and bring them over to the States, so that another family could receive the blessing that they might not be able to otherwise. And it was their desire that a pastor's family might be able to receive the children. And that is what led to us receiving the phone call one April Monday night, from the New Hampshire adoption agency, to whom we had sent no paperwork or money; but had let them know of our desire to adopt and limited finances to do so. This was, no doubt, God's working.
On June 13, 1997, we finished all the process we needed to go through in New Jersey, and brought them home to Florida, where we lived at the time. That was 13 years ago. Today, our twin blessings from God, Alex and Isabella, turned 15! I'm not ready for that. I guess it doesn't matter does it? Here they are: 15 years old
I am grateful to God for these gifts: my oldest son and daughter. He is using them to bless my life and to help me grow in Him. I hope He is also using me in theirs. This is my birthday prayer for both of them:
Lord, thank you for Alex and Isabella, and for this, the end of 15 years of life for them and a new beginning for their 16th year. Even though I didn't know them when they were born, you did, and you knew how you would bring us all together just a couple years from then. Thank you! Thank you for giving them a sensitivity to you; although only you know where their hearts are exactly with you. I pray that you will soften their hearts, renew their minds, and may your Spirit always encourage them to follow you wholeheartedly.
I pray you will keep them pure, in mind and heart, even as they live in this impure world. I pray for friends for them, who are also striving to honor you with their lives. Help them to recognize their weaknesses and to be changed by your power. Help them to be thankful for their strengths and to utilize them for your glory. Help them not to be squeezed into this world's mold; but to stand up and stand out for you, unashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
May they be sensitive to your Spirit, and when they sin, may they confess and repent. May the words of their mouths and the meditation of their hearts be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, our Rock and our Redeemer.
I would love for them to have a safe year, to have a healthy year, to have a happy year; but those are not my goals for them, as I know they are not your priorities either. Mostly, regardless of their circumstances, and sometimes through some very difficult circumstances, I pray you will grow Alex and Isabella, during this year, to be more like your Son, Jesus Christ. Amen.
It was 13 years ago (April, 1997) that Teresa and I received a phone call from an adoption agency in New Hampshire. They shared with us the story of 2 children (twins!) who had been born in Romania in 1995. Their birth mother had died shortly after giving birth (within 2 months) and their father, a Romanian shepherd, placed them in an orphanage. A doctor's family from New Jersey brought them over to the United States 6 months prior to us receiving a phone call.
The doctor's family came to believe that God had them pay for everything and bring them over to the States, so that another family could receive the blessing that they might not be able to otherwise. And it was their desire that a pastor's family might be able to receive the children. And that is what led to us receiving the phone call one April Monday night, from the New Hampshire adoption agency, to whom we had sent no paperwork or money; but had let them know of our desire to adopt and limited finances to do so. This was, no doubt, God's working.
On June 13, 1997, we finished all the process we needed to go through in New Jersey, and brought them home to Florida, where we lived at the time. That was 13 years ago. Today, our twin blessings from God, Alex and Isabella, turned 15! I'm not ready for that. I guess it doesn't matter does it? Here they are: 15 years old
I am grateful to God for these gifts: my oldest son and daughter. He is using them to bless my life and to help me grow in Him. I hope He is also using me in theirs. This is my birthday prayer for both of them:
Lord, thank you for Alex and Isabella, and for this, the end of 15 years of life for them and a new beginning for their 16th year. Even though I didn't know them when they were born, you did, and you knew how you would bring us all together just a couple years from then. Thank you! Thank you for giving them a sensitivity to you; although only you know where their hearts are exactly with you. I pray that you will soften their hearts, renew their minds, and may your Spirit always encourage them to follow you wholeheartedly.
I pray you will keep them pure, in mind and heart, even as they live in this impure world. I pray for friends for them, who are also striving to honor you with their lives. Help them to recognize their weaknesses and to be changed by your power. Help them to be thankful for their strengths and to utilize them for your glory. Help them not to be squeezed into this world's mold; but to stand up and stand out for you, unashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
May they be sensitive to your Spirit, and when they sin, may they confess and repent. May the words of their mouths and the meditation of their hearts be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, our Rock and our Redeemer.
I would love for them to have a safe year, to have a healthy year, to have a happy year; but those are not my goals for them, as I know they are not your priorities either. Mostly, regardless of their circumstances, and sometimes through some very difficult circumstances, I pray you will grow Alex and Isabella, during this year, to be more like your Son, Jesus Christ. Amen.
Monday, April 5, 2010
THE RESURRECTION - SO WHAT?
Yesterday, Easter Sunday, was a special day celebrated around the world. I realize that many people only celebrate it, to the extent that it is a day of egg hunts for the kids, bunnies, getting together with friends and family, and eating a lot of candy. But, certainly, there are many who do celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ on this special day. More people seem to go to church, on Easter Sunday, more than any other day, except perhaps for Christmas!
So, let's assume that people go to church on Easter Sunday and that they say they believe in the resurrection. That is great; but we can't stop there. It is certainly possible for thousands of people to believe in the resurreciton, and yet it makes absolutely no difference in their lives. The Bible is very clear: we cannot just hear what the Bible says; but we must allow it to change us. We must act on its truths:
James 1:22 - "But prove yourselves to be doers of the word and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves."
Therefore, the question that I think we need to ask of every message, of every passage of Scripture, of every Easter Sunday - SO WHAT?
What difference should it make in our lives, the way we live, that Jesus Christ rose from the dead. Yes, there is the obvious answer that we think of first:
Romans 10:9 - "If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved."
It is true - this is a life changing decision: to believe what the Bible says about Jesus, including the fact that He rose from the dead; and to make Jesus the Lord, the master of life - to secure eternal salvation in Heaven some day. There is nothing better than that. But, I am thinking beyond salvation; and especially thinking of those who are Christ followers, but may struggle with allowing the resurrection to have any impact on their lives beyond their salvation decision.
I believe that the resurrection ought to make a difference in our lives, every single day. Let me suggest several ways the resurrection ought to play out in our lives; and challenge you, along with myself, to evaluate whether or not we living out this truth. The following are some of the ways in which the resurrection can change us:
So, let's assume that people go to church on Easter Sunday and that they say they believe in the resurrection. That is great; but we can't stop there. It is certainly possible for thousands of people to believe in the resurreciton, and yet it makes absolutely no difference in their lives. The Bible is very clear: we cannot just hear what the Bible says; but we must allow it to change us. We must act on its truths:
James 1:22 - "But prove yourselves to be doers of the word and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves."
Therefore, the question that I think we need to ask of every message, of every passage of Scripture, of every Easter Sunday - SO WHAT?
What difference should it make in our lives, the way we live, that Jesus Christ rose from the dead. Yes, there is the obvious answer that we think of first:
Romans 10:9 - "If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved."
It is true - this is a life changing decision: to believe what the Bible says about Jesus, including the fact that He rose from the dead; and to make Jesus the Lord, the master of life - to secure eternal salvation in Heaven some day. There is nothing better than that. But, I am thinking beyond salvation; and especially thinking of those who are Christ followers, but may struggle with allowing the resurrection to have any impact on their lives beyond their salvation decision.
I believe that the resurrection ought to make a difference in our lives, every single day. Let me suggest several ways the resurrection ought to play out in our lives; and challenge you, along with myself, to evaluate whether or not we living out this truth. The following are some of the ways in which the resurrection can change us:
- We live with confidence. We know we are on the "winning side"; and nothing the world says or does can change that.
- We live by faith. It is how we came to eternal life; and it is how we must live on a daily basis. Even when we "cannot see", we believe in God's revealed truth, just as we do in the resurrection over 2,000 years ago.
- We expect to be continually changing. Salvation begins a sanctification process, making us new and more like Christ. If we are not changing, then we are not fulfilling what God has planned for us.
- We understand that the most important thing is that people's lives are being changed by the gospel. We are concerned, as individuals and churches, to do whatever is necessary to present the good news of Jesus Christ to people in our community.
- We are not obsessed with our preferences or personal comfort. None of those traditions that we hold to so dearly were a part of Jesus' heart, when He gave up everything to give His life for us. We model His love and commitment by putting aside all that is dear to us, so others will not have unnecessary obstacles to hearing the truth of the resurrection.
- We worship with an excitement, an anticipation, a great joy, because of the resurrection. We don't understand why anyone would "worship" with a frown, folded arms, or an "I'm so bored" attitude.
- We are not afraid to express our praise and thankfulness of the resurrection, through verbal or bodily action. When people watch us woship, they realize that God has changed us to such an extent that we are not ashamed to let everyone know.
- We sacrifice for the good of the gospel, by our giving, even in times of recession, by our service, when many are selfishly using their gifts and talents only for personal gain, and by our pursuit of the mission God has given us
What difference is the resurrection making in your life today?
Friday, April 2, 2010
TRUTH FROM HOLLYWOOD
That's not a statement you hear everyday, is it? It is especially not something you hear a pastor say very often, or ever! But, I am saying it today. Usually, when you watch a movie, you realize that reality is set aside for a couple hours of fantasy, of imagination, of entertainment. Even when a movie is "based on a true story", you know that much has been added or altered, to make it a good story for the big screen. I usually watch a movie to escape from reality.
But, for the past several years, on the evening of Good Friday, I have immersed myself with a dousing of reality from Hollywood; or at least I think so. I have read the story of Jesus' final week hundreds of times over my lifetime. And perhaps, because I have read it so often, and know what it says, the real impact of what Jesus went through for me through His trials and on the cross, is becoming much more of a challenge to experience. I am relating to it, trying to imagine what it might have been like, but not being able to "see it", really. I read the passages of His suffering, but I must admit, it has rarely led me to tears. I suppose this reveals a major weakness of mine, that just reading the accounts have not touched me every time, in the way they should. It is my fault.
But, several years ago, I viewed the movie: Passion of the Christ; and I have never thought of the suffering and crucifixion of our Lord the same again. I realize there was, and is still, criticism of Mel Gibson and the portrayal of these scenes of suffering; but I for one, am the better for it. I have now made it a personal time of worship for me, after the Good Friday service I attend, to view this movie and relive those events in a way that incredibly impacts my heart every time I watch it. I don't necessarily recommend this movie to everyone, because some are offended by it, or don't want to have visions of Christ's suffering. But, every time I watch it, I think: this must have been what it was like (or close to it). At the very least, it has become more real to me, and my heart melts every time I view it.
It is very personal to me. Jesus went through that, for me. He really did suffer, was truly beaten, mocked and betrayed, abandoned by his followers. He did go through the humiliation and scorn, the trials that were a joke of justice. The Scriptures are true; and this is the most realistic depiction I have seen of these truths:
Isaiah 53: 3-7 - "He was despised and rejected by men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief; and as one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and we esteemed him not. Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted. But he was wounded for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his stripes we are healed. All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD has laid on him the iniquity of us all."
Now, when I read this verses, and the corresponding passages in the gospels, I have a picture in my mind and heart of what Jesus went through to bring redemption to one as unworthy as I. Thank you Jesus, for going through with what you came to do. I realize that I may never suffer in the way you have; but I also know, you have set the example of what it means to be a servant:
Philippians 2:5,8 - "Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus...And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross."
You showed us how to live, in when we are unjustly accused or treated wrongly. You responded in perfect love and righteousness, and bore my sins.
I Peter 2:21-24 - "For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps. He committed no sin, neither was deceit found in his mouth. When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly. He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed."
But, for the past several years, on the evening of Good Friday, I have immersed myself with a dousing of reality from Hollywood; or at least I think so. I have read the story of Jesus' final week hundreds of times over my lifetime. And perhaps, because I have read it so often, and know what it says, the real impact of what Jesus went through for me through His trials and on the cross, is becoming much more of a challenge to experience. I am relating to it, trying to imagine what it might have been like, but not being able to "see it", really. I read the passages of His suffering, but I must admit, it has rarely led me to tears. I suppose this reveals a major weakness of mine, that just reading the accounts have not touched me every time, in the way they should. It is my fault.
But, several years ago, I viewed the movie: Passion of the Christ; and I have never thought of the suffering and crucifixion of our Lord the same again. I realize there was, and is still, criticism of Mel Gibson and the portrayal of these scenes of suffering; but I for one, am the better for it. I have now made it a personal time of worship for me, after the Good Friday service I attend, to view this movie and relive those events in a way that incredibly impacts my heart every time I watch it. I don't necessarily recommend this movie to everyone, because some are offended by it, or don't want to have visions of Christ's suffering. But, every time I watch it, I think: this must have been what it was like (or close to it). At the very least, it has become more real to me, and my heart melts every time I view it.
It is very personal to me. Jesus went through that, for me. He really did suffer, was truly beaten, mocked and betrayed, abandoned by his followers. He did go through the humiliation and scorn, the trials that were a joke of justice. The Scriptures are true; and this is the most realistic depiction I have seen of these truths:
Isaiah 53: 3-7 - "He was despised and rejected by men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief; and as one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and we esteemed him not. Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted. But he was wounded for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his stripes we are healed. All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD has laid on him the iniquity of us all."
Now, when I read this verses, and the corresponding passages in the gospels, I have a picture in my mind and heart of what Jesus went through to bring redemption to one as unworthy as I. Thank you Jesus, for going through with what you came to do. I realize that I may never suffer in the way you have; but I also know, you have set the example of what it means to be a servant:
Philippians 2:5,8 - "Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus...And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross."
You showed us how to live, in when we are unjustly accused or treated wrongly. You responded in perfect love and righteousness, and bore my sins.
I Peter 2:21-24 - "For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps. He committed no sin, neither was deceit found in his mouth. When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly. He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed."
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