give or take a couple days...
I don't want to start thinking about next Christmas. I want to reflect a little longer on this past one. I love Christmas time. Although our worship of Christ ought to be year around, there are some special family times that are specially memorable because of the holiday. I know things will change as our children get older; but for now, I really enjoy the special days of the Christmas season with our family.
Every family has their own traditions on Christmas, and I really love ours:
Christmas Eve: We normally give one gift, either to the entire family or each individual. It is usually similar, such as PJ's or devotional books, etc. This year, we didn't do it because we had invested more money in our Thanksgiving vacation. We would also, normally, go to a Christmas Eve service; but with Christmas falling on Sunday, we did not have one. However, the other traditions remained. We ate ponzerat (not sure how to spell it, but this is how I pronounce it), which is fried dough with cheese in it. Teresa does a great job in making them, and they are a family favorite on Christmas Eve! Then, we watch the movie: "It's a Wonderful Life". It used to be that we would all sleep by the Christmas tree, but now we sleep on the couches and carpeted floors of the basement. Well, we older ones tend to make our way into our own beds at some point (some sooner than others!). Once everyone is in bed, Teresa and I stuff every one's stockings, that are hanging by the fireplace.
Christmas Day: With our old age, we put a 7 a.m. time on the earliest that the younger ones are allowed to get up and get everyone else up! So, at 7, we hear the footsteps and everyone starts getting everyone else up. Once we are all gathered, we go to get our stockings and bring them back to the living room (by the tree). Everyone opens the stockings at the same time (well, Teresa and I usually wait until the kids are done); and it is a fun way to begin Christmas morning. Teresa talks about growing up and getting fruit and/or nuts in her stocking. How things have changed! Although presents will be delayed for several hours, it always us to enjoy watching the kids receive some smaller, needed, and fun things.
Next, everyone gets dressed and we have breakfast, which includes Teresa making cinnamon rolls (mmm, mmm, good!). This year, with Christmas falling on a Sunday, we had our family worship time before breakfast. This year, a few weeks leading up to Christmas, we used the "Adornments", with are cardboard ornaments, representing parts of the Christmas story, from Family Life (A Christian organization with many great resources). We read Scripture, and a description of part of the story. Then, one of the kids would put an ornament on. There were 12 in all. We closed our worship time with all of us praying and singing praise to God for His wonderful gift!
It was a blessing, then, for our family to go to church together and worship Jesus on His birthday with the rest of our church family! Even though many were gone traveling or celebrating elsewhere, it was wonderful to be with others and worship God on that special morning. Mostly, we read Scripture and sang Christmas carols. It was great!
Now it was time to open the gifts. We have the younger ones hand out the gifts to every one's personal "spot". Once all the gifts are handed out, we go one by one, youngest to oldest, opening one gift per cycle. The rule is that we all watch the person who is opening the gift rather than thinking about our own. One of my favorite parts is watching our kids get up from their spot and with a thank you, go hug the person who just gave them the gift!
After that, it is usually a relaxed day, with kids playing with their gifts, eating food and just enjoying one another. On this particular day, we also invited someone from the church to come over and enjoy Christmas dinner with us. That was a special blessing as well.
Thank you God for these special times at Christmas, with family; and for these memories that will last a lifetime!
Friday, December 30, 2011
Friday, December 23, 2011
Goodbye 1st decade, hello 2nd
When I say it that way, it seems more discouraging than saying it this way: Happy 11th birthday Caleb and Gabrielle! Our youngest 2 turned 11 yesterday; and yes, began their second decade of life. As all parents know, it seems to go so fast...very, very fast! Sometimes, things seem like a blur, and it is hard to "slow things down" and just enjoy the moments, the fleeting moments of their lives, our lives.
Yesterday, I had one of those moments, where things seemed to "stand still" and I just took it all in. I normally take the birthday boy or girl; or boy and girl (with 2 sets of twins, this is normally what happens!) out for donuts on their birthday. And yes, since I am with them, I might as well have a couple myself. I wouldn't want to be a "party pooper" and not celebrate with my kids, right?!
Anyway, on this occasion, I offered to take them out for lunch instead. But, that would have meant them opening their presents a few hours later than planned, and that was no good (not at their age anyway). So, we decided to keep the breakfast appointment, but they did ask to go to Panera Bread instead this year. Don't worry: they still had unhealthy treats in the form of cinnamon crunch bagels and cinnamon rolls!
But, the moment that stood still for me and that I will will hold onto is when, at 6:30 in the morning, I heard them talking in the room (it was cute that they wanted to sleep in the bunk beds in Caleb's room that night). They stood up and looked so big to me. They were all excited for their special day. They had huge smiles on their faces as they thought about going out to breakfast, opening their gifts and then having friends over later to celebrate.
I know there are more important things in life; and I think they do as well. But, for that moment, to take in their pure joy and excitement that came with the beginning of their 2nd decade of life, it was priceless. I will hang onto that memory forever (well, at least until I forget it; and since I'm in my 5th decade of life, the memory might fade well before "forever"!). So, at least for today I will remember their big smiles and excited faces, as I thank God for these 2 precious children!!
p.s. It was an interesting time, after 7:22 a.m. (when Caleb was born), that Gabrielle realized Caleb had just turned 11 but that she was still 10 for another half an hour!
Yesterday, I had one of those moments, where things seemed to "stand still" and I just took it all in. I normally take the birthday boy or girl; or boy and girl (with 2 sets of twins, this is normally what happens!) out for donuts on their birthday. And yes, since I am with them, I might as well have a couple myself. I wouldn't want to be a "party pooper" and not celebrate with my kids, right?!
Anyway, on this occasion, I offered to take them out for lunch instead. But, that would have meant them opening their presents a few hours later than planned, and that was no good (not at their age anyway). So, we decided to keep the breakfast appointment, but they did ask to go to Panera Bread instead this year. Don't worry: they still had unhealthy treats in the form of cinnamon crunch bagels and cinnamon rolls!
But, the moment that stood still for me and that I will will hold onto is when, at 6:30 in the morning, I heard them talking in the room (it was cute that they wanted to sleep in the bunk beds in Caleb's room that night). They stood up and looked so big to me. They were all excited for their special day. They had huge smiles on their faces as they thought about going out to breakfast, opening their gifts and then having friends over later to celebrate.
I know there are more important things in life; and I think they do as well. But, for that moment, to take in their pure joy and excitement that came with the beginning of their 2nd decade of life, it was priceless. I will hang onto that memory forever (well, at least until I forget it; and since I'm in my 5th decade of life, the memory might fade well before "forever"!). So, at least for today I will remember their big smiles and excited faces, as I thank God for these 2 precious children!!
p.s. It was an interesting time, after 7:22 a.m. (when Caleb was born), that Gabrielle realized Caleb had just turned 11 but that she was still 10 for another half an hour!
Friday, December 16, 2011
IN THE CLEAR
Last week I wrote about the "dark room" experience that periodically comes in my life; and most can relate to what that is like. This week, God has settled my heart on something quite the opposite of the dark room. I don't know that I would call it the light room; but certainly the idea of sunshine, brightness, and being "in the clear" is how I might describe it. I not only recently experienced a dark room feeling but also this feeling of being "in the clear". And as frustrating and challenging as the dark room can be, the "in the clear" moments are equally encouraging, refreshing and full of hope.
In its most basic form, living in the clear is living the right way, even if others think you are not. For example, if a man is on trial for robbing an elderly person, living "in the clear" has nothing to do with what the accuser, lawyers, judge or jury might say. Even if they convict him, the man accused can still live "in the clear" if he knows he didn't do it; or if he confesses that he did it and then pays the consequence. Being "in the clear" is knowing the truth regardless of circumstance or how others view it.
I think what this really is, is simply living with a good conscience. The Bible talks about the importance of having a good conscience: being clear of any unconfessed sin, living a transparent, honest, albeit imperfect life. The opposite of that is having a seared conscience, where we just live the way we want, and we are no longer sensitive to our own sin. We don't care. We are no longer listening to God and His Word.
Probably the situations where I realize my feeling of living "in the clear", is when I am confronted with the possibility, not only of sin (I do that all the time); but that I have unconfessed sin, of which I am unwilling to repent of. That is serious business! None of us like to offend or sin against others, but we know it is a regular part of life. Just ask those who live with you! But, the key is this: when we offend and sin against others (which happens all the time), we also need to be confessing our sin and making things right.
There are times, however, when the person who is hurt or offended does not accept or believe you. And there are times, when you cannot just make things right - at least not very easily. In fact, there are times, when there is nothing you can do. It is at those times, when regardless of what others are saying, you and I have the opportunity to live "in the clear".
For me, personally, it looks like this: That I know I don't have anything I am hiding. I have confessed my sins, made things right with others; and have remained open to how I need to learn and grow. When you have this confidence, of living the best way you know how, you are living "in the clear." That is an incredible experience and feeling. There is nothing like it. The circumstances, actually, don't have to be any different than when you were in the "dark room."
But, the real difference is how you choose to approach it, look at it, and live in it. So, to all of you who happen to read this particular blog entry, here is hoping that today, you are living "in the clear."
In its most basic form, living in the clear is living the right way, even if others think you are not. For example, if a man is on trial for robbing an elderly person, living "in the clear" has nothing to do with what the accuser, lawyers, judge or jury might say. Even if they convict him, the man accused can still live "in the clear" if he knows he didn't do it; or if he confesses that he did it and then pays the consequence. Being "in the clear" is knowing the truth regardless of circumstance or how others view it.
I think what this really is, is simply living with a good conscience. The Bible talks about the importance of having a good conscience: being clear of any unconfessed sin, living a transparent, honest, albeit imperfect life. The opposite of that is having a seared conscience, where we just live the way we want, and we are no longer sensitive to our own sin. We don't care. We are no longer listening to God and His Word.
Probably the situations where I realize my feeling of living "in the clear", is when I am confronted with the possibility, not only of sin (I do that all the time); but that I have unconfessed sin, of which I am unwilling to repent of. That is serious business! None of us like to offend or sin against others, but we know it is a regular part of life. Just ask those who live with you! But, the key is this: when we offend and sin against others (which happens all the time), we also need to be confessing our sin and making things right.
There are times, however, when the person who is hurt or offended does not accept or believe you. And there are times, when you cannot just make things right - at least not very easily. In fact, there are times, when there is nothing you can do. It is at those times, when regardless of what others are saying, you and I have the opportunity to live "in the clear".
For me, personally, it looks like this: That I know I don't have anything I am hiding. I have confessed my sins, made things right with others; and have remained open to how I need to learn and grow. When you have this confidence, of living the best way you know how, you are living "in the clear." That is an incredible experience and feeling. There is nothing like it. The circumstances, actually, don't have to be any different than when you were in the "dark room."
But, the real difference is how you choose to approach it, look at it, and live in it. So, to all of you who happen to read this particular blog entry, here is hoping that today, you are living "in the clear."
Saturday, December 10, 2011
The Dark Room
Have you ever been in the "dark room". It has nothing to do with photography. I am speaking more metaphorical than physical, but nonetheless, it is dark. Some might describe it as depression, but even those who don't label it as depression, might still relate to my description of the "dark room."
I find myself there, almost with no warning; and even if moments earlier, I was in a room full of light. And I'm not sure if I entered a different room, or, and I am thinking this is the case, the dark room I find myself in was in fact the same room full of light just moments before. I don't necessarily have a physical response to the darkness, or an immense fear of any kind (except the fear that the darkness might not go away).
I say there is no physical response, but once I recognize I am in the dark room, I do feel differently. Everything seems different. I don't feel like doing anything. I am ultra-sensitive; and this is normally revealed in my sensitivity, not to light or temperature, but to others actions or attitudes, including words that others say. I find myself responding in the dark room, in ways that I normally would respond, when functioning in the light.
When I try to look for a way out of the room or a way to turn on some lights in the room, it is very frustrating. I can't find an easy way out and there seems to be no electricity or windows. I know the light sources are there (at least I think they are) because I just had light seconds ago. But, somehow, now in this dark room, there seems to be no way to get the light in quickly (or even at all).
What adds to the frustration is trying to figure out why I am in the dark room and why, with all of my efforts, even ones that have worked before, my environment is not changing. I also recognize that the longer I am in the dark room, without any light, the worse I feel, the the thinking patterns; and the worse the actions I feel capable of at any moment.
WHAT IS GOING ON?
Not sure if I am the only one who has even found himself in this dark room; but I doubt it. And I am not here to give any easy answers, because I found those "easy" answers are not always easy; and don't always "work", at least not my time frame. But, having spent probably about 8 straight hours in the dark room recently, I now look back on it, and have tried to learn some things from it. Maybe (or maybe not), the same things I am learning might encourage you:
1. It is important to recognize, as soon as possible, that I am in the dark room. In fact, if possible, it is best to realize I am heading into the dark room before I ever take the first step within it.
2. Being in the dark room could go exactly what God intended; or it could be my own sinful decisions that have brought me there. Eventually, evaluating why I am there or how I got there can be helpful in dealing with the consequences of being in the room; or even preventative to future visits .
3. Being in the dark room doesn't change the truths about God, about me, and about my relationship with God. The sooner I recognize it and admit it, the sooner I can apply those truths to my dark room experience.
Romans 15:13 - "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit."
I find myself there, almost with no warning; and even if moments earlier, I was in a room full of light. And I'm not sure if I entered a different room, or, and I am thinking this is the case, the dark room I find myself in was in fact the same room full of light just moments before. I don't necessarily have a physical response to the darkness, or an immense fear of any kind (except the fear that the darkness might not go away).
I say there is no physical response, but once I recognize I am in the dark room, I do feel differently. Everything seems different. I don't feel like doing anything. I am ultra-sensitive; and this is normally revealed in my sensitivity, not to light or temperature, but to others actions or attitudes, including words that others say. I find myself responding in the dark room, in ways that I normally would respond, when functioning in the light.
When I try to look for a way out of the room or a way to turn on some lights in the room, it is very frustrating. I can't find an easy way out and there seems to be no electricity or windows. I know the light sources are there (at least I think they are) because I just had light seconds ago. But, somehow, now in this dark room, there seems to be no way to get the light in quickly (or even at all).
What adds to the frustration is trying to figure out why I am in the dark room and why, with all of my efforts, even ones that have worked before, my environment is not changing. I also recognize that the longer I am in the dark room, without any light, the worse I feel, the the thinking patterns; and the worse the actions I feel capable of at any moment.
WHAT IS GOING ON?
Not sure if I am the only one who has even found himself in this dark room; but I doubt it. And I am not here to give any easy answers, because I found those "easy" answers are not always easy; and don't always "work", at least not my time frame. But, having spent probably about 8 straight hours in the dark room recently, I now look back on it, and have tried to learn some things from it. Maybe (or maybe not), the same things I am learning might encourage you:
1. It is important to recognize, as soon as possible, that I am in the dark room. In fact, if possible, it is best to realize I am heading into the dark room before I ever take the first step within it.
2. Being in the dark room could go exactly what God intended; or it could be my own sinful decisions that have brought me there. Eventually, evaluating why I am there or how I got there can be helpful in dealing with the consequences of being in the room; or even preventative to future visits .
3. Being in the dark room doesn't change the truths about God, about me, and about my relationship with God. The sooner I recognize it and admit it, the sooner I can apply those truths to my dark room experience.
Romans 15:13 - "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit."
Friday, December 2, 2011
I MISS THE BEACH
That is a phrase people that know me would never expect to hear coming out of my mouth. In fact, this is probably the first time I have ever said it (or written it). Normally, I agree with my father-in-law who recently said: "I like everything about the beach except for the sun, the sand and the water!" Now, he was kidding; but I'm not. I can't think of something much more uncomfortable than being out in the hot sun, getting burned and having hot sand in between my toes. My wife, on the other hand, LOVES the beach. That's the only thing we disagree on of course!
However, the title of this blog is correct: I miss the beach. It doesn't mean I wish I was still on vacation or that my opinions on the above discomfort has changed. It has everything to do with the days I recently spent on the beach...alone with God. He used that time to re-energize me, to refresh me, and to get my perspective back on the right track. I'm sure it is this way in other professions; but as a pastor, I know I need some time to get away, periodically, and refocus. That is why I miss the beach.
Every morning, on vacation, before anyone else arose, I had time to walk on the beach (note:going to the beach early in the morning cuts down on the some of its inherent discomfort!), and just be with God. I was able to pray for long periods of time and meditate on Scripture. Whether on vacation or not, I know I need some time to talk with God and let Him talk to me. But, when away in a different environment (even a beach), there seems to be a special opportunity to return to a better perspective on life and ministry. That is what happened for me.
I will close with the 4 verses that God used from Romans 12 (the passage of Scripture our family just memorized) to remind me of my responsibility. I meditated on this passage all through vacation and from that, I know what God was trying to say to me:
Romans 12:9-12 - "Love must be sincere: hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope,patient in affliction, faithful in prayer."
However, the title of this blog is correct: I miss the beach. It doesn't mean I wish I was still on vacation or that my opinions on the above discomfort has changed. It has everything to do with the days I recently spent on the beach...alone with God. He used that time to re-energize me, to refresh me, and to get my perspective back on the right track. I'm sure it is this way in other professions; but as a pastor, I know I need some time to get away, periodically, and refocus. That is why I miss the beach.
Every morning, on vacation, before anyone else arose, I had time to walk on the beach (note:going to the beach early in the morning cuts down on the some of its inherent discomfort!), and just be with God. I was able to pray for long periods of time and meditate on Scripture. Whether on vacation or not, I know I need some time to talk with God and let Him talk to me. But, when away in a different environment (even a beach), there seems to be a special opportunity to return to a better perspective on life and ministry. That is what happened for me.
I will close with the 4 verses that God used from Romans 12 (the passage of Scripture our family just memorized) to remind me of my responsibility. I meditated on this passage all through vacation and from that, I know what God was trying to say to me:
Romans 12:9-12 - "Love must be sincere: hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope,patient in affliction, faithful in prayer."
Thursday, November 24, 2011
THANKSGIVING
Top 10 things I am thankful for today:
- My Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, who died for my sins and brought me salvation
- My beautiful wife, Teresa, who has promised to always love me...regardless!
- My 5 awesome children...all incredible gifts from God!
- The privilege of being the lead pastor of a great group of people at Grace in Ohio
- A great vacation in warm and sunny Florida
- Athletes like Tim Tebow and Phil Dawson, who seem very genuine in their faith
- Romans 12, which I have memorized and meditated on over vacation
- All of the blessings God has given me
- Safety in driving with my family 24.5 hours yesterday, in rain and congested traffic
- To be with my wife and children, my parents, my brother and his family, today for Thanksgiving!!
Friday, November 18, 2011
HAVE YOU TEBOWED TODAY?
Last night, my son and I went out to eat at a restaurant that showed the football game between the Denver Broncos and the New York Jets. Recently, my interest has been piqued with all the attention, positive and negative, that Tim Tebow, the current quarterback for the Denver Broncos has received. Since he took over as the quarterback this season, the Broncos have 4 wins and 1 loss. Before that, they had 1 win and 4 losses. He is criticized for not being a good quarterback; and yet they keep winning.
What has interested me most is that he is a professing Christian. There are many professional athletes that profess Christianity; but many times, after hearing the things they say and seeing the things they do, I wish they never would have professed Christ. I realize that Tim may start losing every game, and he may bring shame to Christ at some point. But, what I am hearing so far, including from his own mouth, sounds different than the typical professing Christian athletes' response. Even after last night's win, he talked about his faith but he didn't use the typical phrases that are used. He just sounded more genuine. He didn't act as though God was on his side or wanted him to win. In fact, he said that win or lose, he knows what is most important and therefore, he can just enjoy playing, regardless of the result. God is in control.
So, for now, although I don't normally cheer for the Broncos, I am cheering for the Broncos, all because of Tebow. Perhaps you have seen the recent phenomenon on the internet, and elsewhere, that is referred to as "Tebowing". From what I can tell, it comes from the fact that the quarterback kneels in a prayer of thanksgiving after wins and perhaps at other times as well. It received a ton of attention after a win this season, when he came back to win in the 4th quarter. He was shown kneeling in a prayer pose and all of a sudden, "everyone" was doing it. This includes, of course, the Detroit Lions, who beat him the next week and made fun of him.
After last night's win, commentators are using his name in another way. When you get beat by the Broncos, and especially if Tim Tebow helps beat you, you are said to have just been "Tebowed"! I hope he does well, especially if he is truly a follower of Jesus; and especially if that will give him more open doors to share his testimony of faith in Christ. And for the rest of us, regardless of your football allegiances, we can all use a little more, check that, a lot more "Tebowing".
That is, if it means what I think it means to Tim Tebow himself: It means to pray, to remember who gave you the ability to do what you do, and to give Him all the glory". If that is true, then let's take some time to "Tebow" today, even though it is certainly o.k., and probably better, to call it what it is: PRAYER!
What has interested me most is that he is a professing Christian. There are many professional athletes that profess Christianity; but many times, after hearing the things they say and seeing the things they do, I wish they never would have professed Christ. I realize that Tim may start losing every game, and he may bring shame to Christ at some point. But, what I am hearing so far, including from his own mouth, sounds different than the typical professing Christian athletes' response. Even after last night's win, he talked about his faith but he didn't use the typical phrases that are used. He just sounded more genuine. He didn't act as though God was on his side or wanted him to win. In fact, he said that win or lose, he knows what is most important and therefore, he can just enjoy playing, regardless of the result. God is in control.
So, for now, although I don't normally cheer for the Broncos, I am cheering for the Broncos, all because of Tebow. Perhaps you have seen the recent phenomenon on the internet, and elsewhere, that is referred to as "Tebowing". From what I can tell, it comes from the fact that the quarterback kneels in a prayer of thanksgiving after wins and perhaps at other times as well. It received a ton of attention after a win this season, when he came back to win in the 4th quarter. He was shown kneeling in a prayer pose and all of a sudden, "everyone" was doing it. This includes, of course, the Detroit Lions, who beat him the next week and made fun of him.
After last night's win, commentators are using his name in another way. When you get beat by the Broncos, and especially if Tim Tebow helps beat you, you are said to have just been "Tebowed"! I hope he does well, especially if he is truly a follower of Jesus; and especially if that will give him more open doors to share his testimony of faith in Christ. And for the rest of us, regardless of your football allegiances, we can all use a little more, check that, a lot more "Tebowing".
That is, if it means what I think it means to Tim Tebow himself: It means to pray, to remember who gave you the ability to do what you do, and to give Him all the glory". If that is true, then let's take some time to "Tebow" today, even though it is certainly o.k., and probably better, to call it what it is: PRAYER!
Friday, November 11, 2011
Georgia Billboards
Yesterday, as I was travelling through the state of Georgia, something really caught my attention: the big billboards lining the side of the highway. There may be other states that have similar billboards, but I have not seen any, at least to this extent, that compare with the ones in Georgia.
I saw a couple of billboards that were making very strong moral statements. One billboard, which I only saw once, said:" Homosexuality is a sin" - signed: God. I thought: wow. That is true, I believe, but is that the best way to communicate God's truth to people driving by at 75 mph? Another billboard I saw several times targeted abortion; or to put it more positively, were "pro-life". It had the picture of a mom who was pregnant and then a huge statement that was coming from the life inside of her: "18 days after conception, I have a heartbeat". To me, it is a moving billboard. And, in my opinion, it is a more reasonable, loving way to get a good message across.
Beside these examples, it was a series of 4 billboards that made the most impact on me. The first one had no pictures, but simply, in all bold letters, said: "STRIPPERS: Come and take a look!" Then, there was the encouragement to take the next exit and take a look. Probably 1/4 mile from that billboard was one that said: "What Can Wash Away My Sins? Nothing but the blood of Jesus!"
Another mile or so after that was another billboard: "STRIPPERS: Enough said!" Then, about 1/2 mile from that, another billboard: "For God so loved the world". It had a picture of Jesus dying on the cross, and then the words: "eternally assured".
As I was driving, I had some time to consider what I had just seen. A series of 4 billboards, with interchanging messages. I wonder: was it on purpose? Did those who put the gospel centered billboards up mean to do it just after the inappropriate billboards (inappropriate not because of images, but because it is encouraging sin)? I wonder...
My takeaway was this: Whether purposeful or not, There was great truth told in these billboards. There is the allurement to sin, which is very strong (if not these types of billboards, then there is something else that allures us); and then in between those alluring messages, that bring death, there is life bringing gospel messages. Thank God for that. It is truth. What is it that delivers us from the sin of lust, or any sin? Nothing but the blood of Jesus! And what is it about God that I need to focus on, as it relates to my sin, and the strong temptations that I face? "For God so loved the world, that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him will not perish, but have eternal life!"
Next time you are travelling the Georgia highways, look for a great message of truth, in the midst of lies...just on the side of the road!
I saw a couple of billboards that were making very strong moral statements. One billboard, which I only saw once, said:" Homosexuality is a sin" - signed: God. I thought: wow. That is true, I believe, but is that the best way to communicate God's truth to people driving by at 75 mph? Another billboard I saw several times targeted abortion; or to put it more positively, were "pro-life". It had the picture of a mom who was pregnant and then a huge statement that was coming from the life inside of her: "18 days after conception, I have a heartbeat". To me, it is a moving billboard. And, in my opinion, it is a more reasonable, loving way to get a good message across.
Beside these examples, it was a series of 4 billboards that made the most impact on me. The first one had no pictures, but simply, in all bold letters, said: "STRIPPERS: Come and take a look!" Then, there was the encouragement to take the next exit and take a look. Probably 1/4 mile from that billboard was one that said: "What Can Wash Away My Sins? Nothing but the blood of Jesus!"
Another mile or so after that was another billboard: "STRIPPERS: Enough said!" Then, about 1/2 mile from that, another billboard: "For God so loved the world". It had a picture of Jesus dying on the cross, and then the words: "eternally assured".
As I was driving, I had some time to consider what I had just seen. A series of 4 billboards, with interchanging messages. I wonder: was it on purpose? Did those who put the gospel centered billboards up mean to do it just after the inappropriate billboards (inappropriate not because of images, but because it is encouraging sin)? I wonder...
My takeaway was this: Whether purposeful or not, There was great truth told in these billboards. There is the allurement to sin, which is very strong (if not these types of billboards, then there is something else that allures us); and then in between those alluring messages, that bring death, there is life bringing gospel messages. Thank God for that. It is truth. What is it that delivers us from the sin of lust, or any sin? Nothing but the blood of Jesus! And what is it about God that I need to focus on, as it relates to my sin, and the strong temptations that I face? "For God so loved the world, that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him will not perish, but have eternal life!"
Next time you are travelling the Georgia highways, look for a great message of truth, in the midst of lies...just on the side of the road!
Friday, November 4, 2011
I Don't Get it!
I feel like I say this quite a bit, and many times it is just because I am me and the topic I am trying to understand is beyond me. However, there are also other times when I Don't Get it!, but I really think it is the other party that simply makes no sense. And this was one of those times. I worked out the other night and, admittedly, I was sweating like crazy. It was a great workout and I was looking forward to my shower.
So, I got other clothes to change into, took my shower, changed and took my "dirty clothes", also very sweaty, down the hallway to the laundry chute we have on the main floor, that goes down to the laundry basket down in the laundry room. It is a pretty good system. Therefore, it was to my great surprise that I heard my wife say to me: Don't put your dirty clothes in the chute! I think my first words of response were: "But they're dirty clothes!
She went on to explain that my clothes were so "dirty", so sweaty, so smelly, that they went way beyond the "dirty clothes" category; and that my sweaty, smelly clothes didn't deserve (my words, not hers) to be with the other dirty clothes in the laundry room basket.
What? Are you kidding me? These were questions in my mind, not said out loud. Out loud, I think I said: "Yes honey". So, I'm bringing my "case" to those of you reading this blog. You understand where I'm coming from, don't you? If I didn't "stand up" for my own clothes right to survive, I think she might have burned them in the back yard!
Come on now: Am I right...or is she wrong? (Yes, that is exactly what I meant to say)!
So, I got other clothes to change into, took my shower, changed and took my "dirty clothes", also very sweaty, down the hallway to the laundry chute we have on the main floor, that goes down to the laundry basket down in the laundry room. It is a pretty good system. Therefore, it was to my great surprise that I heard my wife say to me: Don't put your dirty clothes in the chute! I think my first words of response were: "But they're dirty clothes!
She went on to explain that my clothes were so "dirty", so sweaty, so smelly, that they went way beyond the "dirty clothes" category; and that my sweaty, smelly clothes didn't deserve (my words, not hers) to be with the other dirty clothes in the laundry room basket.
What? Are you kidding me? These were questions in my mind, not said out loud. Out loud, I think I said: "Yes honey". So, I'm bringing my "case" to those of you reading this blog. You understand where I'm coming from, don't you? If I didn't "stand up" for my own clothes right to survive, I think she might have burned them in the back yard!
Come on now: Am I right...or is she wrong? (Yes, that is exactly what I meant to say)!
Friday, October 28, 2011
5th Quarter
Where does this movie title come from? The movie itself reveals it: Many teams and fans, when the 4th quarter of a football game comes, will hold up 4 fingers to be a motivational reminder that they must play their best football as the game is coming to an end. It is about finishing well. In this case, the players and fans are holding up 5 fingers, in honor of a player's brother, who wore #5 when playing football, but had died in a car accident. The 4th quarter was now known as the 5th quarter.
The movie interested me for a few different reasons: It was about football, it received good reviews from sources I trust; and one of the things I appreciate the most: it was based on a true story. What also made the movie interesting, is that it had a strong message about organ donation, which is not something I remember seeing before. It also lent me an opportunity to talk to my newly driving teenage son about reckless driving; and even getting in a car with a reckless driver.
From my perspective, it was well done and well acted. Even though Wake Forest is not a team I have ever paid attention to, I found myself cheering for them, as they fed on the emotion stemming from a tragedy, and had an unlikely, incredible season in 2006. The story featured the real life experience of linebacker Jon Abbate. It is a compelling story.
So, let me recommend, if you like emotional dramas involving families, or if you are a football fan, that you find time to watch: 5th Quarter. It was one of those movies, where I found myself being inspired to evaluate the challenges of my life; and to make the best of the challenges and blessings God has given me. ENJOY!
The movie interested me for a few different reasons: It was about football, it received good reviews from sources I trust; and one of the things I appreciate the most: it was based on a true story. What also made the movie interesting, is that it had a strong message about organ donation, which is not something I remember seeing before. It also lent me an opportunity to talk to my newly driving teenage son about reckless driving; and even getting in a car with a reckless driver.
From my perspective, it was well done and well acted. Even though Wake Forest is not a team I have ever paid attention to, I found myself cheering for them, as they fed on the emotion stemming from a tragedy, and had an unlikely, incredible season in 2006. The story featured the real life experience of linebacker Jon Abbate. It is a compelling story.
So, let me recommend, if you like emotional dramas involving families, or if you are a football fan, that you find time to watch: 5th Quarter. It was one of those movies, where I found myself being inspired to evaluate the challenges of my life; and to make the best of the challenges and blessings God has given me. ENJOY!
Saturday, October 22, 2011
I LOST 21 POUNDS AND HAVE A BIGGER BUTT
Do you wonder how that could happen? It doesn't normally, I suppose, but it happened to me.
About a month ago, I heard about a contest being put on by Fit Me Up, a fitness group that is run by members of our church: Paul and Amber Theodore. We are honored to be the host site for many of their classes. They work with children and adults alike, to help them with fitness, but not just the physical. They are desiring to help people completely, in mind and body, as they also live out their relationship with Jesus in front of them. It is the total package. As they say on their website: "It's more than just fitness: it's a way of life." Let me encourage you to look them up:
www.fitmeupfitness.com
So, back to my bigger butt. The night before the 3 week contest began, my wife was really encouraging me to enter. It was a 3 week contest, to see who could lose the highest percentage of body weight in that amount of time. The idea, I think, was to motivate us to eat and exercise well, and then continue that lifestyle. Don't know if this had anything to do with the 21 days, but I hear it takes 21 days to learn a new habit. The timing was pretty good because I had decided I needed to do something, as I was not feeling good and definitely gaining weight.
I wasn't going to do the contest, but Teresa thought I could win and really wanted me to do it. The last thing I wanted was to not join the contest, then find out later that I would have won. So, I did it. Weighed in at 210 pounds, almost 50 pounds more than when I married my sweetheart some years ago. I think she was hoping I might lose some weight as well. Fit Me Up helped me stay with the plan to get things in order. So, with God's help, I disciplined myself for 3 weeks and did the best I could. I didn't really expect to win, but I knew this would help me in an important area. So, in the 3 weeks, I lost 21 pounds. I pray I won't put it all back on in the next 3 weeks!
So, how did I lose 21 pounds but get a bigger butt? Well, I ended up winning the contest. That means I take the prize money, put it in my wallet, and then in my back pocket, gives me a heavier, bigger butt...Got it?
About a month ago, I heard about a contest being put on by Fit Me Up, a fitness group that is run by members of our church: Paul and Amber Theodore. We are honored to be the host site for many of their classes. They work with children and adults alike, to help them with fitness, but not just the physical. They are desiring to help people completely, in mind and body, as they also live out their relationship with Jesus in front of them. It is the total package. As they say on their website: "It's more than just fitness: it's a way of life." Let me encourage you to look them up:
www.fitmeupfitness.com
So, back to my bigger butt. The night before the 3 week contest began, my wife was really encouraging me to enter. It was a 3 week contest, to see who could lose the highest percentage of body weight in that amount of time. The idea, I think, was to motivate us to eat and exercise well, and then continue that lifestyle. Don't know if this had anything to do with the 21 days, but I hear it takes 21 days to learn a new habit. The timing was pretty good because I had decided I needed to do something, as I was not feeling good and definitely gaining weight.
I wasn't going to do the contest, but Teresa thought I could win and really wanted me to do it. The last thing I wanted was to not join the contest, then find out later that I would have won. So, I did it. Weighed in at 210 pounds, almost 50 pounds more than when I married my sweetheart some years ago. I think she was hoping I might lose some weight as well. Fit Me Up helped me stay with the plan to get things in order. So, with God's help, I disciplined myself for 3 weeks and did the best I could. I didn't really expect to win, but I knew this would help me in an important area. So, in the 3 weeks, I lost 21 pounds. I pray I won't put it all back on in the next 3 weeks!
So, how did I lose 21 pounds but get a bigger butt? Well, I ended up winning the contest. That means I take the prize money, put it in my wallet, and then in my back pocket, gives me a heavier, bigger butt...Got it?
Friday, October 14, 2011
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM!
Since I am now married to a mom, I get a closer view of what moms go through. And they go through a lot. Unfortunately, the children for whom they labor and love don't seem to appreciate it very much, or know how to show that appreciation...until they are grown. It is not that children don't, deep down, appreciate mom; but it seems to go against natural tendency for the children to really "get it" until they are older. That has continually reminded me that I probably took all mom did for granted, in my growing up years. For the past several years, however, I have been forever grateful for mom, who she is and all she has done. But, much of my praise has been within my own heart; when what I really need to do is tell her.
So, mom, let me just say that you are incredible. You have given your life to God, to love dad, and to love us, sacrificially. You still do that today, even though we now have our own families. I cannot say enough how special you and all that you mean to me. I am sorry I did not do a good enough job over the years telling you so. At least I don't remember doing so...enough. Your faithfulness and loyalty is unparalleled; and I have never doubted your love for me. You taught me many things growing up; but the most important things you taught me was just by your life: humbly serving those around you.
Have a wonderful birthday mom - you deserve it!
Greg
So, mom, let me just say that you are incredible. You have given your life to God, to love dad, and to love us, sacrificially. You still do that today, even though we now have our own families. I cannot say enough how special you and all that you mean to me. I am sorry I did not do a good enough job over the years telling you so. At least I don't remember doing so...enough. Your faithfulness and loyalty is unparalleled; and I have never doubted your love for me. You taught me many things growing up; but the most important things you taught me was just by your life: humbly serving those around you.
Have a wonderful birthday mom - you deserve it!
Greg
Friday, October 7, 2011
COURAGEOUS
Christian movies scare me a little bit; because many times, they do more harm than good, in my opinion. If it is obviously meant to have a Christian message, it is important that it is well done. It doesn't have to have well known actors or tons of money or incredible special effects. But, it needs to be well done. I'm no movie critic, but I have seen enough Christian movies to know if it is good or not; at least good enough to represent Christ well to those who see it.
Courageous is the latest work from Sherwood Pictures, which also produced Fireproof and Facing the Giants. These movies also were decidedly Christian, made with little money and some very inexperienced actors. However, they surprisingly did well at the box office and there are many supporters who eagerly wait for their next production. I had seen and really enjoyed the previously mentioned movies, so I was cautiously optimistic about Courageous.
I went with 5 other men, all fathers, from our church and watched it together. Although it is rated PG-13, there is no inappropriate material that would embarrass followers of Jesus. The only question may be to what age of children you would allow to watch the movie. The worst part were the previews they showed for R rated movies before the one we came to watch. I could tell some of the themes and issues in the movies will be inappropriate, by what I heard, but I kept my eyes closed in case there were inappropriate images as well. I cannot speak to that.
Whereas Fireproof focused on fireman learning the importance and commitment of marriage, Courageous focused on policemen learning the importance and commitment of fathering and leading their families. It was excellent! The comedy was clean and well done. The action was realistic, as testified to by current and former law enforcement officers I have talked to, that have seen the movie. The drama was captivating, as many character issues were raises and played out in a variety of circumstances.
Anyone who believes in the importance of family and faith will appreciate and enjoy this movie. What I appreciated most, however, was how they were able to present the true message of the gospel, in the context of a well made movie with a good plot. As in the movies preceding it, Courageous found a way to give us an enjoyable movie experience; but keep the message of the gospel in tact. Good for them!
So, I would like to encourage all adults and perhaps even their teenagers, to go see Courageous. Support the movie in the theaters so it will be more likely that other movies like it will be made, and more theaters will make these available for audiences. And allow it to be an opportunity of discussion among those who see it with you; and perhaps even a specific challenge to your own spiritual growth.
Courageous is the latest work from Sherwood Pictures, which also produced Fireproof and Facing the Giants. These movies also were decidedly Christian, made with little money and some very inexperienced actors. However, they surprisingly did well at the box office and there are many supporters who eagerly wait for their next production. I had seen and really enjoyed the previously mentioned movies, so I was cautiously optimistic about Courageous.
I went with 5 other men, all fathers, from our church and watched it together. Although it is rated PG-13, there is no inappropriate material that would embarrass followers of Jesus. The only question may be to what age of children you would allow to watch the movie. The worst part were the previews they showed for R rated movies before the one we came to watch. I could tell some of the themes and issues in the movies will be inappropriate, by what I heard, but I kept my eyes closed in case there were inappropriate images as well. I cannot speak to that.
Whereas Fireproof focused on fireman learning the importance and commitment of marriage, Courageous focused on policemen learning the importance and commitment of fathering and leading their families. It was excellent! The comedy was clean and well done. The action was realistic, as testified to by current and former law enforcement officers I have talked to, that have seen the movie. The drama was captivating, as many character issues were raises and played out in a variety of circumstances.
Anyone who believes in the importance of family and faith will appreciate and enjoy this movie. What I appreciated most, however, was how they were able to present the true message of the gospel, in the context of a well made movie with a good plot. As in the movies preceding it, Courageous found a way to give us an enjoyable movie experience; but keep the message of the gospel in tact. Good for them!
So, I would like to encourage all adults and perhaps even their teenagers, to go see Courageous. Support the movie in the theaters so it will be more likely that other movies like it will be made, and more theaters will make these available for audiences. And allow it to be an opportunity of discussion among those who see it with you; and perhaps even a specific challenge to your own spiritual growth.
Saturday, October 1, 2011
First Job
Just the other day, my eldest daughter secured her first "real" job. She has done plenty of work in the past, including: the important work at home, doing chores, watching kids, etc.; serving at our church, serving God in many ways, including working with kids; volunteering at a Christian camp for a few weeks (Skyview Ranch - Millersburg, Oh); and other things I am forgetting. But, you probably know what I mean: this job is a paying job, where she interviewed for it, is training for it, and will be working it until she moves onto something else. It is a big deal!
I am realizing, as a parent, as my children grow to different stages of life, that there is a huge difference experiencing the stages myself and experiencing them as a parent. My first paying job was at age 11 (I think), as I began a paper route. I worked that until I left for college, even going back to the same work when I was in between pastoral ministries. I eventually worked other jobs in high school as well, including: Hardees restaurant; Sears portrait gallery telemarketer; and probably something else I am forgetting. Work is a good thing, an important thing; but it is also a sign of moving forward in life. And for teenagers, it is a whole new stage.
The making money part is nice; but there is also the tough lesson of taxes that hits every teenager pretty much the same way when they see their first paycheck: "What in the world is going on here? Where is my money? Who stole my money?" It is a great teaching opportunity, but I can't help but laugh a little (inside of course), as the response is sure to come. Beside the money issue, learning to work hard, be on time, communicate with employers and fellow workers, being responsible, all the way around, are just some of the great learning opportunities that come with the first jobs of a high schooler.
So, my sweet daughter, congratulations on landing your first "real" job; and may God bless as you learn some important lessons along the way. One more thing: there is nothing like being a parent and having the experience I had a few days ago. Her employer told me how sweet my daughter is, how glad they are to have her, and ended her comments with: "This was a good hire". What else does a proud dad want to hear? (well, maybe this: "oh, by the way, since your daughter is so sweet and everything, we have decided to give her dad free food anytime he wants!")
I am realizing, as a parent, as my children grow to different stages of life, that there is a huge difference experiencing the stages myself and experiencing them as a parent. My first paying job was at age 11 (I think), as I began a paper route. I worked that until I left for college, even going back to the same work when I was in between pastoral ministries. I eventually worked other jobs in high school as well, including: Hardees restaurant; Sears portrait gallery telemarketer; and probably something else I am forgetting. Work is a good thing, an important thing; but it is also a sign of moving forward in life. And for teenagers, it is a whole new stage.
The making money part is nice; but there is also the tough lesson of taxes that hits every teenager pretty much the same way when they see their first paycheck: "What in the world is going on here? Where is my money? Who stole my money?" It is a great teaching opportunity, but I can't help but laugh a little (inside of course), as the response is sure to come. Beside the money issue, learning to work hard, be on time, communicate with employers and fellow workers, being responsible, all the way around, are just some of the great learning opportunities that come with the first jobs of a high schooler.
So, my sweet daughter, congratulations on landing your first "real" job; and may God bless as you learn some important lessons along the way. One more thing: there is nothing like being a parent and having the experience I had a few days ago. Her employer told me how sweet my daughter is, how glad they are to have her, and ended her comments with: "This was a good hire". What else does a proud dad want to hear? (well, maybe this: "oh, by the way, since your daughter is so sweet and everything, we have decided to give her dad free food anytime he wants!")
Saturday, September 24, 2011
PASTOR DECIDES TO STOP GIVING
What about that for a headline? I don't think I have ever seen it; but it would certainly get attention...atleast it would get mine. I think we take it for granted that pastors would give, consistently and generously, at all times. I have never heard a message geared toward pastors giving financially, along with everyone else. I think it is assumed. However, just this last week, the thought crossed my mind: do I really have to give...joyfully, voluntarily, sacrificially (as I preach to everyone else)? My mind starts to build a case for justifying not to give, just once: the Bible doesn't direct pastors to give; it seems to emphasize that the giving by others cares for the pastors; finances are tight; I could the money for so many other good causes; an appliance broke and we had to use money to fix it; and there were a few more thoughts I have forgotten.
My point is this: I am just like everyone else - no more holy - not a robot. I am tempted, like everyone else, not to follow through with living sacrificially, for the glory of God, at all times. And when it comes to financial giving, I have the same challenges others face. And I am faced with the same temptations, including when it comes to withholding my giving from what God requires.
Thankfully, God's Spirit won't let me give in to the lies; and I have decided to continue giving. it doesn't mean I will never be tempted again in this area; but for now, I have come to my senses. I must continue to rely on what I know to be true: my responsibility is to give as God has asked; and it is His responsibility to meet all my needs (He has never let me down). Tomorrow, as I place my envelope in the contribution box, I will choose to give joyfully, and see it as a great opportunity to worship.
My point is this: I am just like everyone else - no more holy - not a robot. I am tempted, like everyone else, not to follow through with living sacrificially, for the glory of God, at all times. And when it comes to financial giving, I have the same challenges others face. And I am faced with the same temptations, including when it comes to withholding my giving from what God requires.
Thankfully, God's Spirit won't let me give in to the lies; and I have decided to continue giving. it doesn't mean I will never be tempted again in this area; but for now, I have come to my senses. I must continue to rely on what I know to be true: my responsibility is to give as God has asked; and it is His responsibility to meet all my needs (He has never let me down). Tomorrow, as I place my envelope in the contribution box, I will choose to give joyfully, and see it as a great opportunity to worship.
Saturday, September 17, 2011
LOVE
I have heard the words very often, from I Corinthians 13. It is known as the love chapter, and I am very familiar with it. However, it was just over the past couple of weeks, that this chapter impacted me in a fresh way. Our family decided to memorize I Corinthians 13, learning 1 verse 5 days a week; so in just over a couple weeks, we had the entire chapter put to memory. We reviewed it as a family and each had a chance to say the entire chapter (only 13 verses). Listening to it over and over again, learning it myself, saying it over and over again; and really concentrating on the words, made me think more about the message of this chapter than I had for many, many years. It is something I think about in some way, almost every day. As I write it here, let' consider the words, the truth and their intended impact on us:
I Corinthians 13
1- If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.
2 - If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries, and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
3 - If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
4 - Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5 - It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6 - Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7 - It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, alwys perseveres
8 - Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
9 - For we know in part and we prophesy in part.
10 - But when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears.
11 - When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.
12 - Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 - And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
I Corinthians 13
1- If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.
2 - If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries, and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
3 - If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
4 - Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5 - It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6 - Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7 - It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, alwys perseveres
8 - Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
9 - For we know in part and we prophesy in part.
10 - But when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears.
11 - When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.
12 - Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 - And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
Friday, September 9, 2011
NINE ELEVEN
That's all you have to say and people know what you are talking about. This morning, I grabbed a tee shirt out of my drawer, and it said America on it. Normally, I wouldn't think twice about what the shirt said, but this weekend, it's different...isn't it? The likelihood is, that if you watch news channels, or the history channel, this weekend, you are going to be watching hours of reflection from an event 10 years ago that touched us all...in some way.
How did it touch my life? That morning, I was working at the church and the custodian came to tell me that planes crashed into the world trade center towers. I called Teresa and told her to turn on the TV. I remember going to some appointment that day or soon after and hearing the president talk about it on the radio. I remember these deep, intense feelings of patriotism rising to engulf my entire being. Did you feel the same way? We were looking for en enemy to fight, to show American resolve and to somehow bring to justice those that took American lives in their acts of cowardice.
But, over these past 10 years, I have had much more time to reflect, biblically, on what happened on 9/11. I am not one of those that believes that every disaster or tragedy is a specific act of God's judgment on America for a particular sin or political view. I believe in a sovereign God who ALWAYS does what is right, and what brings Him glory. If there is something to blame, the blame goes to the sinful nature of man, that brings death as a consequence. It is the only explanation, really, for why people would do the terribly things they did that day. It is only a loving, merciful God that would rescue any of us, or keep us from being wiped off the planet. And, in the big picture of things, God's desire is not to keep us here as long as possible, keep us safe, and help us accomplish the American Dream (whatever that is).
Whatever happens in our lives, including 9/11 level events, it gives us an opportunity to focus on our God, who is the Creator of all life; and most importantly, offers eternal life to all who will go to Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. 9/11 affected all kinds of people all kinds of different ways. I can't pretend to know what it was like for those who lost loved ones that day. But, I do know that all of life's events allow us to grow, to reflect on our short, uncertain lives, and to place our complete trust in the only one who really knows the reason for all things - and has everything in control - the one and only true God! May He receive attention and glory, this weekend, for the protection He has given us, for the great blessings we still enjoy; and most of all, for who He is.
How did it touch my life? That morning, I was working at the church and the custodian came to tell me that planes crashed into the world trade center towers. I called Teresa and told her to turn on the TV. I remember going to some appointment that day or soon after and hearing the president talk about it on the radio. I remember these deep, intense feelings of patriotism rising to engulf my entire being. Did you feel the same way? We were looking for en enemy to fight, to show American resolve and to somehow bring to justice those that took American lives in their acts of cowardice.
But, over these past 10 years, I have had much more time to reflect, biblically, on what happened on 9/11. I am not one of those that believes that every disaster or tragedy is a specific act of God's judgment on America for a particular sin or political view. I believe in a sovereign God who ALWAYS does what is right, and what brings Him glory. If there is something to blame, the blame goes to the sinful nature of man, that brings death as a consequence. It is the only explanation, really, for why people would do the terribly things they did that day. It is only a loving, merciful God that would rescue any of us, or keep us from being wiped off the planet. And, in the big picture of things, God's desire is not to keep us here as long as possible, keep us safe, and help us accomplish the American Dream (whatever that is).
Whatever happens in our lives, including 9/11 level events, it gives us an opportunity to focus on our God, who is the Creator of all life; and most importantly, offers eternal life to all who will go to Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. 9/11 affected all kinds of people all kinds of different ways. I can't pretend to know what it was like for those who lost loved ones that day. But, I do know that all of life's events allow us to grow, to reflect on our short, uncertain lives, and to place our complete trust in the only one who really knows the reason for all things - and has everything in control - the one and only true God! May He receive attention and glory, this weekend, for the protection He has given us, for the great blessings we still enjoy; and most of all, for who He is.
Saturday, September 3, 2011
FIELD DAY!
alternate title: Feeling Old Day!
At this time of year, just at the beginning of the school year, our children would often have a field day, where classes were suspended, and they would do a variety of activities together as a school. Since we have all 5 of our kids home for school this year, we decided to have our own field day: Friday, September 2nd. The structure of our field day was built on each family member choosing 1 activity for all of us to participate in.
Our first 2 activities were a unique soccer game and ultimate frisbee. It was hot and muggy out, which is what I am going to blame my pure exhaustion on. It can't be because I'm out of shape, or old, can it? It was our first ultimate frisbee game together as a family; but it really worked well. I might even be able to say that all 7 of us enjoyed it (that is a rare thing)!
But, what made me feel the oldest, was the obstacle course. This was also pretty fun, as each family member put together one obstacle for everyone to participate in. However, this is where my aging was revealed. My goal was to beat my teenage son's time. I had a great start. But, once I got to the obstacle of spinning my body around a bat 5 times, everything went a little blurry. I could hardly stand up, let alone run to the next obstacle. We have video evidence (which means my kids must have expected I would have a problem) but don't expect to see it anytime soon, or ever. The only thing that makes me feel better is that my young wife had more problems with that obstacle than I did. Perhaps I can secretly get that video to you. It is funny (at least in my humble opinion)!
After all the heart pumping, sweating work we did earlier in the day, the last few activities were more the speed for us older folks. We went to our favorite pizza place, favorite ice cream place, watched the sunset at the beach (make my wife happy); and played hide and seek at the church. These are things I can do, without heavy breathing. It was a full day, but a good one.
So, that was Field Day, or Feeling Old Day; but either way, it was a fun family day!
At this time of year, just at the beginning of the school year, our children would often have a field day, where classes were suspended, and they would do a variety of activities together as a school. Since we have all 5 of our kids home for school this year, we decided to have our own field day: Friday, September 2nd. The structure of our field day was built on each family member choosing 1 activity for all of us to participate in.
Our first 2 activities were a unique soccer game and ultimate frisbee. It was hot and muggy out, which is what I am going to blame my pure exhaustion on. It can't be because I'm out of shape, or old, can it? It was our first ultimate frisbee game together as a family; but it really worked well. I might even be able to say that all 7 of us enjoyed it (that is a rare thing)!
But, what made me feel the oldest, was the obstacle course. This was also pretty fun, as each family member put together one obstacle for everyone to participate in. However, this is where my aging was revealed. My goal was to beat my teenage son's time. I had a great start. But, once I got to the obstacle of spinning my body around a bat 5 times, everything went a little blurry. I could hardly stand up, let alone run to the next obstacle. We have video evidence (which means my kids must have expected I would have a problem) but don't expect to see it anytime soon, or ever. The only thing that makes me feel better is that my young wife had more problems with that obstacle than I did. Perhaps I can secretly get that video to you. It is funny (at least in my humble opinion)!
After all the heart pumping, sweating work we did earlier in the day, the last few activities were more the speed for us older folks. We went to our favorite pizza place, favorite ice cream place, watched the sunset at the beach (make my wife happy); and played hide and seek at the church. These are things I can do, without heavy breathing. It was a full day, but a good one.
So, that was Field Day, or Feeling Old Day; but either way, it was a fun family day!
Friday, August 26, 2011
What were my parents thinking?
I'm sure when I was younger, that this question came to head; but the older I get, the more I realize their wisdom, and I rarely ask this question anymore. But today was one of those days that caused me to ask this question. Now that I am a parent, especially of teenagers, I am much more aware of everything my parents went through!
Today, I took my two 16 year old children to take their temporary license exams. And they both passed. uh-oh - now what do I do? I guess we start driving. So, there was an abandoned parking lot we found to drive around in, far, far away from civilization (well - maybe not too far). They did a great job for their first time. We will see how this goes.
But, I realized how much more nervious I am about them driving than I ever was about driving myself. And that leads me to my title question. In Iowa, you can get your temporary license at age 14...yes, 14! And that is exactly what I did. If I remember right, on my birthday, I took the exam and was driving around Iowa. And don't give me any of those predictable comments about how easy it must be to drive on the open dusty roads next to all cornfields; or how my temporary license was for a tractor. I'm a city boy, my friend! Any way, What were my parents thinking, letting me drive at 14? I'm feeling a little insane about mine driving at 16 and 4 months!
I guess their getting older (glad I'm not). It is a part of the ritual. I will try to make the best of it. And, I also realized another benefit today. We took care of 2 things at once. My son got his temporary license; but if he ever gets arrested, it can double as his mug shot! If you don't believe me, ask him to see it.
Today, I took my two 16 year old children to take their temporary license exams. And they both passed. uh-oh - now what do I do? I guess we start driving. So, there was an abandoned parking lot we found to drive around in, far, far away from civilization (well - maybe not too far). They did a great job for their first time. We will see how this goes.
But, I realized how much more nervious I am about them driving than I ever was about driving myself. And that leads me to my title question. In Iowa, you can get your temporary license at age 14...yes, 14! And that is exactly what I did. If I remember right, on my birthday, I took the exam and was driving around Iowa. And don't give me any of those predictable comments about how easy it must be to drive on the open dusty roads next to all cornfields; or how my temporary license was for a tractor. I'm a city boy, my friend! Any way, What were my parents thinking, letting me drive at 14? I'm feeling a little insane about mine driving at 16 and 4 months!
I guess their getting older (glad I'm not). It is a part of the ritual. I will try to make the best of it. And, I also realized another benefit today. We took care of 2 things at once. My son got his temporary license; but if he ever gets arrested, it can double as his mug shot! If you don't believe me, ask him to see it.
Saturday, August 20, 2011
An Uncomfortable Quote
This was a quote my wife read last night in our family devotional time. It is a good one. It is also uncomfortable, at least for me; because it reflects where my heart often is. Let me share it with you:
"I am progressing along the path of life in my ordinary contentedly fallen and godless condition, absorbed in a merry meeting with my friends for the morrow or a bit of work that tickles my vanity to-day, a holiday or a new book, when suddenly a stab of abdominal pain that threatens serious disease, or a headline in the newspapers threatens us all with destruction, sends this whole pack of cards tumbling down. At first I am overwhelmed, and all my little happinesses look like broken toys. Then, slowly and reluctantly, bit by bit, I try to bring myself into the frame of mind that I should be in at all times. I remind myself that all these toys were never intended to possess my heart, that my true good is in another world and my only real treasure is Christ. And perhaps, by God's grace, I succeed, and for a day or two become a creature consciously dependent on God and drawing its strength from the right sources. But the moment the threat is withdrawn, my whole nature leaps back to the toys." - C.S. Lewis, The Problem of Pain (New York: Macmillan, 1962)
"I am progressing along the path of life in my ordinary contentedly fallen and godless condition, absorbed in a merry meeting with my friends for the morrow or a bit of work that tickles my vanity to-day, a holiday or a new book, when suddenly a stab of abdominal pain that threatens serious disease, or a headline in the newspapers threatens us all with destruction, sends this whole pack of cards tumbling down. At first I am overwhelmed, and all my little happinesses look like broken toys. Then, slowly and reluctantly, bit by bit, I try to bring myself into the frame of mind that I should be in at all times. I remind myself that all these toys were never intended to possess my heart, that my true good is in another world and my only real treasure is Christ. And perhaps, by God's grace, I succeed, and for a day or two become a creature consciously dependent on God and drawing its strength from the right sources. But the moment the threat is withdrawn, my whole nature leaps back to the toys." - C.S. Lewis, The Problem of Pain (New York: Macmillan, 1962)
Sunday, August 7, 2011
Below Par
**I thought I already posted this, only to find out that it stayed as a draft for this past week. So, it is a week old, but since I already wrote it, don't want to waste it. Plus, I don't normally get to talk about golf in my blogs. So, here it is...
This phrase is normally used in a negative way, referring to someone who is not performing to the expected standard or above. They are underachieving. But, the actual meaning of the phrase is a good thing, when related to the game of golf. Par is the number of hits expected to put the ball in the hole; although only the good ones can score par consistently. We duffers will get a par every once in a while and feel really good about ourselves. But scoring below par, through birdies and eagles (ask your golfing friends for more explanation) is really, really good; even far above average!
This past Friday I had the privilege (for the 2nd year in a row) to attend a professional golf tournament, called the Bridgestone Invitational, held at the Firestone course in Akron, OH. I am grateful to the friends that have supplied me with the tickets, once again. It is very interesting, and fun, to be present, live, for the action; rather than just watching it on TV. It is fun to see the reactions of the golfers, the interaction with their caddies; and especially to watch the crowds.
One of the things that I couldn't get out of my mind, as I reflected on my experience there, was how important golf is made to be at a place and situation like that. There is alot ton of money spent, by spectators, to sit (or walk) out in the sun for 8 hours, to gasp on miss shots and to cheer the good shots, of guys in funny pants hitting a little round white ball, past the trees, over the sand, on the green and into a little hole, in as few as strokes as possible. People want their autographs and chant their name. And if the golfer, at the end of his round, were to give you the golf ball they just used, well, that would make the spectator's day, or even week or year!
I love sports and I love to watch it live; but in the grand scope of what is truly important, it really isn't. These guys have spent countless hours perfecting their game, so they could play it for a living (which is great!) and make money and in come cases, become well known. I'm sure there are Christian golfers using this as a great opportunity to share their faith and be a testimony for Christ. But, in most cases, these guys spend their lives and their fans spend their cheers on things that are very temporary and not truly valuable.
That made me think of how those of us who will never be famous or make a ton of money, and will never get cheered. The truth is, if we spend our lives practicing righteousness, learning to love and follow Jesus in a better way...if we spend our time and money and what lasts for eternity - the changed lives of people in Christ - then we are investing ourselves in what truly matters, and what is truly cheer worthy.
Those who value what God values are living extraordinary lives.
This phrase is normally used in a negative way, referring to someone who is not performing to the expected standard or above. They are underachieving. But, the actual meaning of the phrase is a good thing, when related to the game of golf. Par is the number of hits expected to put the ball in the hole; although only the good ones can score par consistently. We duffers will get a par every once in a while and feel really good about ourselves. But scoring below par, through birdies and eagles (ask your golfing friends for more explanation) is really, really good; even far above average!
This past Friday I had the privilege (for the 2nd year in a row) to attend a professional golf tournament, called the Bridgestone Invitational, held at the Firestone course in Akron, OH. I am grateful to the friends that have supplied me with the tickets, once again. It is very interesting, and fun, to be present, live, for the action; rather than just watching it on TV. It is fun to see the reactions of the golfers, the interaction with their caddies; and especially to watch the crowds.
One of the things that I couldn't get out of my mind, as I reflected on my experience there, was how important golf is made to be at a place and situation like that. There is alot ton of money spent, by spectators, to sit (or walk) out in the sun for 8 hours, to gasp on miss shots and to cheer the good shots, of guys in funny pants hitting a little round white ball, past the trees, over the sand, on the green and into a little hole, in as few as strokes as possible. People want their autographs and chant their name. And if the golfer, at the end of his round, were to give you the golf ball they just used, well, that would make the spectator's day, or even week or year!
I love sports and I love to watch it live; but in the grand scope of what is truly important, it really isn't. These guys have spent countless hours perfecting their game, so they could play it for a living (which is great!) and make money and in come cases, become well known. I'm sure there are Christian golfers using this as a great opportunity to share their faith and be a testimony for Christ. But, in most cases, these guys spend their lives and their fans spend their cheers on things that are very temporary and not truly valuable.
That made me think of how those of us who will never be famous or make a ton of money, and will never get cheered. The truth is, if we spend our lives practicing righteousness, learning to love and follow Jesus in a better way...if we spend our time and money and what lasts for eternity - the changed lives of people in Christ - then we are investing ourselves in what truly matters, and what is truly cheer worthy.
Those who value what God values are living extraordinary lives.
Saturday, July 30, 2011
Relationships: A Mess Worth Making - Part 3
The book was written by Tim Lane and Paul Tripp. It is excellent and I would recommend it to everyone. But, even if you don't get to read it, just thinking about some of its quotes can be beneficial. I have already covered the first 10 chapters in my previous entries; so here are the final 5 chapters. My favorite quotes from chapters 11-15:
- We should never minimize the humble service of one person to another; it is a sign of God's grace at work in a person's life
- Jesus is calling you to move into people's lives and become vulnerable
- Repentance and faith must be your daily lifestyle. Why? Because it lays you low and lifts you up at the same time
- We want to think of ourselves as fundamentally different from the people who need mercy when, in fact, we are the same
- Mercy is the kind, sympathetic, and forgiving treatment of others that works to relieve their distress and cancel their debt. Or mercy is compassion combined with forbearance and action
- Mercy means you expect suffering in your relationships and are willing to endure it
- How you use your time and money in your human relationships says much about your relationship with God
- We often get stuck when repeatedly confronted with problems, failure, weakness, disappointment, and sin. Our track record tends to convince us that change is impossible. Imagination does not deny the track record, but places it in the context of who we are in Christ. It reminds us that God's Spirit is at work in us.
- In short, we are called to help each other see the unseen reality of our active, present, and personal God
- The fact that relationships remain intact at all, and even last for years, is a sign that God's goodness still abides in the world
Saturday, July 23, 2011
Relationships: A Mess Worth Making - part 2
Last entry, I shared some of my favorite quotes from this book by Tim Lane and Paul Tripp. I realize that if I write too many down at one time, that none of us, myself included, are going to spend the time to read them and think about their implications. So, last week, I shared from the first 5 chapters. These are my favorite quotes from chapters 6-10:
- struggle in relationships is everyone's story
- When I live out of a biblical sense of who I am (identity) and rest in who God is (worship), I will be able to build a healthy relationship with you.
- No human being was ever meant to be the source of personal joy and contentment for someone else. Is there evidence that you are looking to your relationships to give you things you have already been given in Christ?
- Your words are always in pursuit of some kind of kingdom. You are either speaking as a mini-king, seeking to establish your will in your relationships and circumstances; or you are speaking as an ambassador, seeking to be part of what the King is doing.
- If I am not affirming the glory of God in the way he made you (including the ways you are different from me), I will be frustrated with who you are and tempted to remake you in some way.
- Conflict with others is one of God's mysterious, counterintuitive ways of rescuing us from ourselves
- Own whatever personal sin you have brought to the situation. Only do this if you have sin to own; Name the problem; Explore possible solutions; Implement the agreed-upon solution; Evaluate your implementation; If you get stuck and things don't improve, be willing to get outside help.
- When we reject the opportunity to forgive or ask for forgiveness, the relationship suffers. When we choose to practice true forgiveness, the relationship is not just brought back to where it was before the offense; it actually moves further down the road to maturity.
- Practicing forgiveness is something we must do daily in the same way we ask for the daily provision of food.
- Our relationships don't work according to our plan because they are part of his plan. We are discouraged because we don't see Christ
Friday, July 15, 2011
RELATIONSHIPS: A Mess Worth Making
This book was written by Tim Lane and Paul Tripp. It is definitely worth buying, and reading.
I will share my favorite quotes with you here:
I will share my favorite quotes with you here:
- The fatal flaw of human wisdom is that it promises that you can change your relationships without needing to change yourself.
- If you want to enjoy any progress or blessing in your relationships, it will require you to admit your sin humbly and commit yourself to the work they require.
- The health and maturity of a relationship are not measured by an absence of problems, but by the way the inevitable problems are handled.
- What happens in the messiness of relationships is that our hearts are reveal, our weaknesses are exposed, and we start coming to the end of ourselves. only when this happens do we reach out for the help God alone can provide.
- Our relationships must be shaped not by what we want, but by what God intends.
- The Bible reminds us that even when we are sinned against, ultimately, before God our biggest problem is still our own hearts' propensity to sin. Even when our hearts have been horribly damaged by the sins of another, we are to guard our hearts so that we are not sucked into sin's destructiveness.
- Our mistake is to think of grace as deliverance from problems; in reality, it is the ability to persevere in the midst of those problems.
- God chooses to surround us with people who are different from us because he knows it will promote his purpose.
- the highest joys of relationship grow in the soil of the deepest struggles. Struggles are not obstacles, but instruments in God's hands. Every struggle is an opportunity to experience God's grace yourself and give it to the other person.
Well, those are my favorite quotes from the chapters 1-5. That is enough for now. If you and I meditate on just these quotes and consider them as it relates to us, it will be beneficial. Perhaps I will include more quotes at a later time. Enjoy your messy relationships!
Friday, July 8, 2011
BIRDS AND THE BEES
I have heard this phrase many times over my many years and I know the main topic that it refers to. However, I have never really heard anyone use birds and bees to teach the topic. I'm sure it exists out there somewhere. Nevertheless, I suppose the phrase still works; and sounds good. Now, for the reality.
Teresa and I grew up in a generation where the "Birds and the Bees" were not talked about often, from parents to children; although they were certainly willing to answer questions if we asked. We just never asked. I don't blame my parents, as they were great examples to us; and we certainly knew what was expected in terms of sexual activity.
So, we were left to learn about these things, in detail, from other people and other places. We determined that, for our children, in this generation, we would be the first to talk to our kids about sex. It is our desire that this is an on-going, open, discussion about sex and all issues surrounding it. We live in a world, today, that is much more direct about sex, and it hits our families on all sides. If we, as parents, don't take the offensive, our children will be inundated with the world's philosophy rather than ours...rather than a biblical one.
With that said, we have found that there is something special about the "first talk", the explanation of what sex is, and what God's plan has always been for it. When to have that talk depends on what information is available to that particular child, his/her interest in the topic; and how his/her body is developing. The key to knowing when is always prayer. We have now done it with 3 of our 5 children, and it has been at age 11 or 12. Once that time comes, we have found a very helpful resource, to use in talking in detail about this topic and in making it a very special occasion.
So, we do an overnight trip with the child, whose turn it is. If it is a boy, I will do it; and if it is a girl, Teresa will do it. And really, it's not just about sex, although that is a key topic. It is about purity, all around, in order to honor God. The main resource we use is a set of CD's we listen to, from Family Life Ministries, called Passport To Purity. This program also has other materials that are useful, including projects to do and discussion questions after listening to one of the CD's. We have found it nice that Family Life introduces the topic and leads us right into the important discussions we need to have. Any parent can follow this guideline.
We also try to go somewhere where the child would like to go, so that we can also have some fun together. Once the overnight is over, and everything has been discussed, we go out to eat to their favorite restaurant. The other parent meets us there and we have a great meal together. The topping of it all, ties it all together. At the end of the CD's, the child is challenged to sign their passport to purity, which is a committed to remain pure, sexually, until marriage. This is a commitment, before God, and commitment with parental support. The child will need loving support to remain pure until God gives them freedom to enjoy sex as a gift, with their husband or wife someday - just the way God planned it.
In order to celebrate this important decision and to make it memorable, we present our child with a purity ring, for the girls; and some type of meaningful symbol, like a sword, for the boys. It is to remind them of their commitment and that we are here to support them all the way in it. We will also let them know, as time goes on, that it doesn't matter what mistakes they make, or sins they commit, even in this area. We are going to support and help them. But, we believe it is important, at this time, to set the biblical challenge before them, and to try and cement it to their hearts, in a loving way. So far, it is been a meaningful experience, not just for our children, but for us as parents.
If you would like to look into this resource, you can go to the website:
www.FamilyLife.com
And then search: passport2purity
Teresa and I grew up in a generation where the "Birds and the Bees" were not talked about often, from parents to children; although they were certainly willing to answer questions if we asked. We just never asked. I don't blame my parents, as they were great examples to us; and we certainly knew what was expected in terms of sexual activity.
So, we were left to learn about these things, in detail, from other people and other places. We determined that, for our children, in this generation, we would be the first to talk to our kids about sex. It is our desire that this is an on-going, open, discussion about sex and all issues surrounding it. We live in a world, today, that is much more direct about sex, and it hits our families on all sides. If we, as parents, don't take the offensive, our children will be inundated with the world's philosophy rather than ours...rather than a biblical one.
With that said, we have found that there is something special about the "first talk", the explanation of what sex is, and what God's plan has always been for it. When to have that talk depends on what information is available to that particular child, his/her interest in the topic; and how his/her body is developing. The key to knowing when is always prayer. We have now done it with 3 of our 5 children, and it has been at age 11 or 12. Once that time comes, we have found a very helpful resource, to use in talking in detail about this topic and in making it a very special occasion.
So, we do an overnight trip with the child, whose turn it is. If it is a boy, I will do it; and if it is a girl, Teresa will do it. And really, it's not just about sex, although that is a key topic. It is about purity, all around, in order to honor God. The main resource we use is a set of CD's we listen to, from Family Life Ministries, called Passport To Purity. This program also has other materials that are useful, including projects to do and discussion questions after listening to one of the CD's. We have found it nice that Family Life introduces the topic and leads us right into the important discussions we need to have. Any parent can follow this guideline.
We also try to go somewhere where the child would like to go, so that we can also have some fun together. Once the overnight is over, and everything has been discussed, we go out to eat to their favorite restaurant. The other parent meets us there and we have a great meal together. The topping of it all, ties it all together. At the end of the CD's, the child is challenged to sign their passport to purity, which is a committed to remain pure, sexually, until marriage. This is a commitment, before God, and commitment with parental support. The child will need loving support to remain pure until God gives them freedom to enjoy sex as a gift, with their husband or wife someday - just the way God planned it.
In order to celebrate this important decision and to make it memorable, we present our child with a purity ring, for the girls; and some type of meaningful symbol, like a sword, for the boys. It is to remind them of their commitment and that we are here to support them all the way in it. We will also let them know, as time goes on, that it doesn't matter what mistakes they make, or sins they commit, even in this area. We are going to support and help them. But, we believe it is important, at this time, to set the biblical challenge before them, and to try and cement it to their hearts, in a loving way. So far, it is been a meaningful experience, not just for our children, but for us as parents.
If you would like to look into this resource, you can go to the website:
www.FamilyLife.com
And then search: passport2purity
Sunday, July 3, 2011
BIG CHURCH ENVY
One of the things I hear, consistently, from those who pastor or attend smaller churches, like ours, is criticism of larger churches. I think it is because there is a natural, albeit misguided, tendency, to think that to be successful in ministry, we must have a large church. You can't really find that in the Bible; but it is easy to see it that way. So, for those of us in smaller churches, we tend to make excuses for being small, as though we needed to, and we point fingers of blame at those we consider to be large.
Some of the criticisms I hear the most, cast toward larger churches are: They are all about entertainment; They are stealing from the smaller churches; They must be liberal; They water down the gospel; Sure, anyone can gather a crowd if they do the kinds of things that church is doing; They don't love older people; They can't be pleasing God; They waste money; The only way they can do all they do is because they have a lot of money; and many other criticisms I can't remember.
As a pastor of a small church, I can say that I have to fight off the temptation to be critical of larger churches. I think the key to not being critical is look at all churches, including larger ones, and including our own churches, with a biblical eye. And I cannot speak with experience, about all larger churches, but I can speak about one: Northridge Church in Rochester, NY. Because my brother is the senior pastor, I get a lot of inside information, and since I had the opportunity to visit, once again, a couple Sundays ago, and preached, I saw the church in action.
I praise God for the work He is doing at Northridge. Over the past 10 years, they have lost about 60% of their membership (that includes all the kinds of ways of losing people), including about 30% who have very negative things to say about the church, its changes, and the leadership responsible. However, there are now many, many more people who have come over the past 10 years, that have made decisions for Christ, and have been eye-witnesses to the way God has dramatically changed people's lives. Hundreds more now hear the good news of Jesus every week, and take next steps in their spiritual journey.
Just speaking from my own personal knowledge and experience, this particular larger church does what it does, not to be famous or large; but to make more and better disciples (another way of terming "The Great Commission" - Matthew 28:19,20). With that in mind, they have been willing to sacrifice tradition and comfort for whatever God leads them to do in order to communicate the never changing gospel to an ever changing world. That also means, unfortunately, that they take the risk of being a target for the critical ones out there (mostly other Christian churches) that will cast a critical eye, simply because Northridge is growing in numbers, have built a new building, and are gaining more recognition among others.
As a small church pastor, my concern cannot be on trying to be large; but on doing the same thing that Northridge is doing: making disciples. That is my heart's desire. And regardless of how large we grow, we will be successful as long as we are seeing people take the next steps in their spiritual journey. And as for the larger churches out there, God bless them, as long as they are doing what they do, for the glory of God! Today, I am thanking God for Northridge Church.
Check them out, and say a prayer of blessing for them as well: www.northridgerochester.com
Some of the criticisms I hear the most, cast toward larger churches are: They are all about entertainment; They are stealing from the smaller churches; They must be liberal; They water down the gospel; Sure, anyone can gather a crowd if they do the kinds of things that church is doing; They don't love older people; They can't be pleasing God; They waste money; The only way they can do all they do is because they have a lot of money; and many other criticisms I can't remember.
As a pastor of a small church, I can say that I have to fight off the temptation to be critical of larger churches. I think the key to not being critical is look at all churches, including larger ones, and including our own churches, with a biblical eye. And I cannot speak with experience, about all larger churches, but I can speak about one: Northridge Church in Rochester, NY. Because my brother is the senior pastor, I get a lot of inside information, and since I had the opportunity to visit, once again, a couple Sundays ago, and preached, I saw the church in action.
I praise God for the work He is doing at Northridge. Over the past 10 years, they have lost about 60% of their membership (that includes all the kinds of ways of losing people), including about 30% who have very negative things to say about the church, its changes, and the leadership responsible. However, there are now many, many more people who have come over the past 10 years, that have made decisions for Christ, and have been eye-witnesses to the way God has dramatically changed people's lives. Hundreds more now hear the good news of Jesus every week, and take next steps in their spiritual journey.
Just speaking from my own personal knowledge and experience, this particular larger church does what it does, not to be famous or large; but to make more and better disciples (another way of terming "The Great Commission" - Matthew 28:19,20). With that in mind, they have been willing to sacrifice tradition and comfort for whatever God leads them to do in order to communicate the never changing gospel to an ever changing world. That also means, unfortunately, that they take the risk of being a target for the critical ones out there (mostly other Christian churches) that will cast a critical eye, simply because Northridge is growing in numbers, have built a new building, and are gaining more recognition among others.
As a small church pastor, my concern cannot be on trying to be large; but on doing the same thing that Northridge is doing: making disciples. That is my heart's desire. And regardless of how large we grow, we will be successful as long as we are seeing people take the next steps in their spiritual journey. And as for the larger churches out there, God bless them, as long as they are doing what they do, for the glory of God! Today, I am thanking God for Northridge Church.
Check them out, and say a prayer of blessing for them as well: www.northridgerochester.com
Thursday, June 23, 2011
When the funeral seemed like a church
One of the most negative things that could be said about a church service: "That service seemed like a funeral." It is not really meant to criticize funerals or funeral homes, as they have their special place. But, if someone says that the church service seemed like a funeral, it usually means it was boring, with no excitement, no enthusiasm, no life. That is not a good thing to be said about a church, where the Holy Spirit is supposed to be present and people are filled with joy, as they worship their Lord and Savior.
What happened here, this last Sunday, was unexpected, was a lot like a funeral; but turned out to be a most special time of worship. Because of a variety of unforeseen circumstances, I arrived Sunday morning, at 6 a.m. to a building that had partial power. Most importantly, there was no air in the worship center or educational areas and lights only in parts of these areas of ministry. A couple hours of trying to figure it out led to calling the power company, which would take most of the day to fix the problem.
We were scrambling, to see if we could have a morning service, anywhere. On a hunch, I walked next door to the funeral home, and called the phone number listed on the door. The director called back and said that they had nothing going on that day and would be happy to allow us to use their facility. That led to more scrambling, as we moved chairs, equipment and many people helped get everything ready for the service.
So, our service was a lot like a funeral, only in the sense that we held the service in a funeral home. There was a sense of excitement, as though we were a church that just began meeting in a rented facility. Everyone did their part, to make sure that we did everything possible to lead a meaningful time of worship. People adjusted, and focused on what was, rather than what was not. That was refreshing and encouraging. The smaller room (than our worship center) was packed with chairs and people filling them. The service was simple, with one guitarist leading the singing, a message, with no power point, and no extra videos that were planned.
And yet, we worshipped, we fellowshipped, we sensed a move of the Spirit of God. I won't say that I will be disappointed to be back in our facility next week; but I can say that I will thankful, for the funeral home who allowed us to come; and for the time of worship to our God that we experienced there one Sunday morning!
What happened here, this last Sunday, was unexpected, was a lot like a funeral; but turned out to be a most special time of worship. Because of a variety of unforeseen circumstances, I arrived Sunday morning, at 6 a.m. to a building that had partial power. Most importantly, there was no air in the worship center or educational areas and lights only in parts of these areas of ministry. A couple hours of trying to figure it out led to calling the power company, which would take most of the day to fix the problem.
We were scrambling, to see if we could have a morning service, anywhere. On a hunch, I walked next door to the funeral home, and called the phone number listed on the door. The director called back and said that they had nothing going on that day and would be happy to allow us to use their facility. That led to more scrambling, as we moved chairs, equipment and many people helped get everything ready for the service.
So, our service was a lot like a funeral, only in the sense that we held the service in a funeral home. There was a sense of excitement, as though we were a church that just began meeting in a rented facility. Everyone did their part, to make sure that we did everything possible to lead a meaningful time of worship. People adjusted, and focused on what was, rather than what was not. That was refreshing and encouraging. The smaller room (than our worship center) was packed with chairs and people filling them. The service was simple, with one guitarist leading the singing, a message, with no power point, and no extra videos that were planned.
And yet, we worshipped, we fellowshipped, we sensed a move of the Spirit of God. I won't say that I will be disappointed to be back in our facility next week; but I can say that I will thankful, for the funeral home who allowed us to come; and for the time of worship to our God that we experienced there one Sunday morning!
Friday, June 17, 2011
Do you remember 17 years ago?
17 years ago today, the 5th game of the NBA finals was taking place, between the Houston Rockets and New York Knicks. Unless you are a Rockets or Knicks fan, from way back when, you probably don't remember the game. I don't even remember who won that game or who won the series. It wasn't the game that caused 95 million people, worldwide, to have their programming interrupted, regardless of what network or local news outlet they were watching at the time (about 7 p.m. EST), to hear and see footage of breaking news. In fact, the station carrying the NBA finals put the game in a box in the corner of the screen so that the rest of the screen could be dedicated to the breaking news:
In Orange County, CA, on interstate 405, we watched a ton of police cars "chase" (it wasn't really a chase - more like a "Sunday drive" through a park) a white Ford Bronco. It was so slow and the news got around so quickly,that eventually there were people standing out of their cars, alongside the road, watching the white bronco go by; because by then they knew who was in the car: O.J. Simpson. OJ was one of the greatest running backs who ever played football, but at the time, he was wanted for a double murder: his ex-wife Nicole Brown Simpson and her friend Ronald Goldman. Say it ain't so OJ!
But, for me personally, even as I watched the chase on TV, it was not even close to my highlight that day or that weekend. It was not going to distract me from the greatest event of my life. For, the next day, I would be married to Teresa Ann Campagna, and receive the greatest gift from God (after my personal birth and my re-birth through salvation): my beautiful bride! 17 years ago, today, we were enjoying family and friends, who were arriving, as we had our rehearsal dinner and rehearsal. It was a great time of celebration. Even OJ's arrest could not take that away.
And of course, that all means, that tomorrow, June 18th, marks 17 years of being married to the most wonderful, godly, beautiful woman in the world: Teresa Whiting! Babe, I am still in love with you, and it grows year after year. You are becoming more precious to me, even as time goes on. Thanks for putting up with me, for your faithfulness to God, your effort in rearing our children, and for your love for me. I am so grateful for you, for our 17 years of marriage; and I look forward, by God's grace, to this next year of life together. I LOVE YOU!
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!
In Orange County, CA, on interstate 405, we watched a ton of police cars "chase" (it wasn't really a chase - more like a "Sunday drive" through a park) a white Ford Bronco. It was so slow and the news got around so quickly,that eventually there were people standing out of their cars, alongside the road, watching the white bronco go by; because by then they knew who was in the car: O.J. Simpson. OJ was one of the greatest running backs who ever played football, but at the time, he was wanted for a double murder: his ex-wife Nicole Brown Simpson and her friend Ronald Goldman. Say it ain't so OJ!
But, for me personally, even as I watched the chase on TV, it was not even close to my highlight that day or that weekend. It was not going to distract me from the greatest event of my life. For, the next day, I would be married to Teresa Ann Campagna, and receive the greatest gift from God (after my personal birth and my re-birth through salvation): my beautiful bride! 17 years ago, today, we were enjoying family and friends, who were arriving, as we had our rehearsal dinner and rehearsal. It was a great time of celebration. Even OJ's arrest could not take that away.
And of course, that all means, that tomorrow, June 18th, marks 17 years of being married to the most wonderful, godly, beautiful woman in the world: Teresa Whiting! Babe, I am still in love with you, and it grows year after year. You are becoming more precious to me, even as time goes on. Thanks for putting up with me, for your faithfulness to God, your effort in rearing our children, and for your love for me. I am so grateful for you, for our 17 years of marriage; and I look forward, by God's grace, to this next year of life together. I LOVE YOU!
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!
Monday, June 13, 2011
OOPS!
One of the inherent challenges and frustrations that pastors face is that we are forever making mistakes in things we say. Because we are talking, every week, for 40 minutes or so, we are bound to blow it...often. I guess I shouldn't speak for all other pastors, but I blow it often. And depending on your audience, they might twist your words, be offended by your words, mock your words, or just ignore them. Thankfully,when I "blew" it yesterday, the crowd at Grace gave me a break. 3 different people came up to me and asked me if I really meant what I said:
"All BELIEVERS will either spend eternity in Heaven or Hell."
And it wasn't that I just said it, but that I had also typed it that way and a slide of it was on the screen for everyone to see.
OOPS!
The real danger of it, of course, is that those who do not know what the Bible says may think I was saying that people who have already believed in Jesus might lose their salvation. Hopefully, the earlier statement about all believers being assured of their salvation made them realize that I must have used the wrong word here. I meant to say: "Every person will either spend eternity in Heaven or Hell."
So, sorry to all I confused
Thanks to all who corrected me.
And thanks to God, for allowing me to keep preaching, as I keep messing it up!
"All BELIEVERS will either spend eternity in Heaven or Hell."
And it wasn't that I just said it, but that I had also typed it that way and a slide of it was on the screen for everyone to see.
OOPS!
The real danger of it, of course, is that those who do not know what the Bible says may think I was saying that people who have already believed in Jesus might lose their salvation. Hopefully, the earlier statement about all believers being assured of their salvation made them realize that I must have used the wrong word here. I meant to say: "Every person will either spend eternity in Heaven or Hell."
So, sorry to all I confused
Thanks to all who corrected me.
And thanks to God, for allowing me to keep preaching, as I keep messing it up!
Saturday, June 4, 2011
2 Belts are Better than 1
...I guess... they must be...
If 2 belts weren't better than 1, than certainly I wouldn't have worn 2!
For the first time I can remember, ever, I realized that other day, that I was wearing 2 belts.
Yep -2 belts - both in all the loops of the jeans - both buckled.
How did that happen? I wasn't drunk (I don't drink) and I wasn't high on drugs (I don't do drugs). So, what is my explanation for having 2 belts on? Certainly, it's not dementia...not yet; and I wouldn't want to admit that I am just completely clueless, not realizing, as I am putting on my belt, that I already have one on. So, here MUST be another explanation.
Let's at least try, shall we? Certainly, one of the following must be why I instinctively put on the 2nd belt. I knew I might need it. For what? Good question. Let's throw out a few answers and hope you "buy"one!
1. Just in case I needed to "give the belt" to 2 of my children at the same time
[this might be difficult to prove since I have never used the belt on my kids]
2. I was, subconsciously, starting a new fad
[you might believe this one unless you have ever seen my wardrobe, or clothing choices -
however, if some of you would be so kind as to start wearing 2 belts, I suppose it could turn
into one. Please only mention my name if it actually "catches on"!]
3. What is someone was hanging over a cliff and we needed 2 belt lengths to rescue them
[you can't tell me that would never happen. If someone uses that in the next action movie, I
want full credit]
4. I like to help people and assist them with their needs. What if some poor fellow was walking by
and his pants were going to fall down? I could give him my belt
[my second one of course -the first one is mine - all mine!]
5. What if I made up this story just so I would have something to blog about? That must be it!
[that would mean that I wasn't so oblivious that I put on a second belt over the first one]
you can decide which of the above proves the old cliche (at least it will become an old cliche after it becomes a new cliche): 2 Belts are Better than 1!
If 2 belts weren't better than 1, than certainly I wouldn't have worn 2!
For the first time I can remember, ever, I realized that other day, that I was wearing 2 belts.
Yep -2 belts - both in all the loops of the jeans - both buckled.
How did that happen? I wasn't drunk (I don't drink) and I wasn't high on drugs (I don't do drugs). So, what is my explanation for having 2 belts on? Certainly, it's not dementia...not yet; and I wouldn't want to admit that I am just completely clueless, not realizing, as I am putting on my belt, that I already have one on. So, here MUST be another explanation.
Let's at least try, shall we? Certainly, one of the following must be why I instinctively put on the 2nd belt. I knew I might need it. For what? Good question. Let's throw out a few answers and hope you "buy"one!
1. Just in case I needed to "give the belt" to 2 of my children at the same time
[this might be difficult to prove since I have never used the belt on my kids]
2. I was, subconsciously, starting a new fad
[you might believe this one unless you have ever seen my wardrobe, or clothing choices -
however, if some of you would be so kind as to start wearing 2 belts, I suppose it could turn
into one. Please only mention my name if it actually "catches on"!]
3. What is someone was hanging over a cliff and we needed 2 belt lengths to rescue them
[you can't tell me that would never happen. If someone uses that in the next action movie, I
want full credit]
4. I like to help people and assist them with their needs. What if some poor fellow was walking by
and his pants were going to fall down? I could give him my belt
[my second one of course -the first one is mine - all mine!]
5. What if I made up this story just so I would have something to blog about? That must be it!
[that would mean that I wasn't so oblivious that I put on a second belt over the first one]
you can decide which of the above proves the old cliche (at least it will become an old cliche after it becomes a new cliche): 2 Belts are Better than 1!
Friday, May 27, 2011
Praise God for WCA
WCA is Westside Christian Academy and I am praising God for this school today. They will be celebrating 8th grade graduation this morning, and although we have no children in 8th grade, it is one of the unique things they celebrate each year (the school is K-8th grade). Throughout the year, there are special programs and events which, in our opinion, sets them apart. They do not call themselves a classical Christian school, but I know that much of what they do is based on a classical approach to education. As a family, we have come to appreciate that very much. We also love that they offer great academics, while focusing on character development.
In the full 5 school years that we have been here in Northeast Ohio, God has provided for our children to be able to attend. Like most private schools, it takes money to attend, but we have found the sacrifice to be worth it. And, without the help of scholarships, through the school, as well as others who have given anonymously toward our children's education, we would have no way of going there. 2 of our children have since graduated, and 3 are finishing out another year in elementary there.
One of the reasons we are praising God so much for WCA this year, is because God has led us to home school our youngest 3 next year, meaning we will not be returning, at least for next school year. Normally, we are praying and waiting until August to see if God would provide financially (which He always did, eventually); but this time, we know that God is desiring we trust Him by faith, in a different way - bringing our children home. We are excited about what God is going to do through this educational and life experience this next school year; but we are saddened about leaving WCA.
May God bless WCA, their board, staff and students, as they continue to train young people, not just in the basic academic requirements, but in something that is much more important, and eternal: what it means to see the world from God's perspective; and to live for Him in every day life. And that is why, this morning, I am praising God for WCA!
In the full 5 school years that we have been here in Northeast Ohio, God has provided for our children to be able to attend. Like most private schools, it takes money to attend, but we have found the sacrifice to be worth it. And, without the help of scholarships, through the school, as well as others who have given anonymously toward our children's education, we would have no way of going there. 2 of our children have since graduated, and 3 are finishing out another year in elementary there.
One of the reasons we are praising God so much for WCA this year, is because God has led us to home school our youngest 3 next year, meaning we will not be returning, at least for next school year. Normally, we are praying and waiting until August to see if God would provide financially (which He always did, eventually); but this time, we know that God is desiring we trust Him by faith, in a different way - bringing our children home. We are excited about what God is going to do through this educational and life experience this next school year; but we are saddened about leaving WCA.
May God bless WCA, their board, staff and students, as they continue to train young people, not just in the basic academic requirements, but in something that is much more important, and eternal: what it means to see the world from God's perspective; and to live for Him in every day life. And that is why, this morning, I am praising God for WCA!
Sunday, May 22, 2011
YES!
I was asked a question this past week that caused me to think, really think about my heart answer. Not the answer that appeases people or sounds good, or even the "right" answer; but the true, heart felt answer. I suppose every person asks, or ought to ask themselves questions like this one: Do I still want to be a plumber; Do I still love being a lawyer; Do I really want to keep working for this company? So, I have been thinking about my answer...
I suppose people ask this question when things aren't going so well. Perhaps the pay isn't great, and there is more financial pressure. Or, the work place doesn't seem safe, either physically or emotionally. Sometimes, there is great tension at work, or at home because of work. And other times, for those of us growing older, we wonder: is this really how I want to spend the rest of my really productive working days?
DO YOU STILL WANT TO BE A PASTOR?
This is the question I was asked, and after thinking about it, these are some of the reasons, even from the last few days, as to why I gave the answer I did:
I suppose people ask this question when things aren't going so well. Perhaps the pay isn't great, and there is more financial pressure. Or, the work place doesn't seem safe, either physically or emotionally. Sometimes, there is great tension at work, or at home because of work. And other times, for those of us growing older, we wonder: is this really how I want to spend the rest of my really productive working days?
DO YOU STILL WANT TO BE A PASTOR?
This is the question I was asked, and after thinking about it, these are some of the reasons, even from the last few days, as to why I gave the answer I did:
- There is nothing else I would rather do. There are other things I could do. Last time, in between pastoral positions, I was a security guard, paper boy (I prefer paperman - sounds more like a super hero), and worked at Chick-fil-a, all during the same period of time. I love coaching basketball and if I could make a living at it, it would be tempting. I could probably teach the Bible somewhere, like a Bible College. But, deep down, I know God called me to this, that it is a privilege, and truly, at this moment, there is nothing else I would rather do with my "productive years".
- The world hasn't ended yet. Last night, another prediction of the end of the world came and went. But, everybody seemed to be talking about it, even sports talk radio. It was on most of the news stations, even though most of the Christian world opposed Harold Camping's prediction of May 21, 2011 for the end (or at least the Rapture). But, it reminded me, that during such days, and in light of all kinds of varying beliefs in our world, people need pastors who are willing to "rightly divide the Word of truth", talking about what the Bible says, and what it doesn't say. Even my own family needs that. As a pastor, I get to do that, for my job!
- I experienced the ultimate high. I should just leave that statement hanging, and find out what all of you thought I meant by that. Before you ask if I've considered rehab or if the police should be called, let me explain. Yesterday, in the midst of a counseling appointment (I was the counselor this time!), someone prayed to receive Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior!!! If you have ever led someone in a prayer to trust in Jesus for salvation, then you know what I mean when I say it is the ultimate high, for any follower of Jesus. And because I am a pastor, I seem to get more opportunities to be an eyewitness to people being changed, for eternity; and it is a humbling privilege.
- Cigarette cartons in the parking lot. As I arrived at the church early this morning, I was greeted, by the door I enter, with an empty bottle of powerade, an empty bottle of an energy drink, and 3 empty cigarette cartons. The fact that they were just tossed down outside our doors probably means that those who littered were not regular attenders of our church, who would probably not just throw garbage on the grounds of their church. By the empty cartons, I can't tell, of course, of their spiritual condition. But, it did remind me of this. I pastor because I want to reach people and help them take the next step in their spiritual journey. And I don't just want to minister to people, here, who are disgruntled Baptists from another church. I don't want to just minister to people who think they have it "all together." I want to work with and serve those who smoke, those who drink, those who don't know what modesty means, those who have addictions, those who swear, those who don't have a lot of bare skin because of their tattoos, or many spots they haven't yet tried some type of ring on their body. I want our church to be open to those who are hurting, and brave enough to admit it. I want to minister to the kinds of people that Jesus ministered to: those who have problems, or at least know they have problems (the "sick" as Jesus termed it).
Despite the crap (believe me - I never used this kind of language until I became a pastor - actually until I was in my second decade of pastoring) that pastors have to shovel every day (and I realize that everyone else, in every other profession has to do the same thing), when I remember that I am serving the Lord, and not trying to please "men", then I am in the right spirit and have joy in serving. There is nothing else I would rather do, investing my life in others. So, for those of you, that were just looking for a simple answer, you can stop with the title of this entry: YES!
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
The World Ends this Saturday
The billboard in Florida reads: Judgement Day will arrive May 21, 2011; The Bible guarantees it! This certainly catches attention, especially to those who believe in the Bible and know that Jesus will return one day. It probably also catches the attention of those who do not believe in the Bible, but do believe, according to an ancient calendar, that the world is going to end in 2012. Prophecy, especially biblical prophecy, has long been of interest to those who believe in God and read the Bible. Ever since the Bible was written, people have wondered when the Messiah would come, when Jesus would come back a second time, and when the end of the world would take place. Our world jumps on this curiosity by making movies about the topic; and book writers make millions by writing about it.
I have studied the Bible all of my life. I have been a follower of Jesus from a very early age, and have gone to Bible college and seminary. That doesn't make me an expert, but it means I have studied, in depth, what the Bible says about the end of the world. In the general grouping of evangelical Christians, there is much debate, even, as to how the events will unfold and the order of such events. For example, will Jesus come in a Rapture, where all Christians rise in the air, meet Him in the clouds and go to Heaven with Him? Or, will Jesus come right to earth, to set up His 1,000 Kingdom reign? Most agree that Jesus is coming back a second time (the first being His incarnation as a baby 2,000 years ago), to set up His Kingdom and to judge all.
So, as I have read the claims of Harold Camping, who is predicting the end this Saturday, I cringe. Many people will look at his claims as coming from the general group of evangelicals, representing hundreds of thousands of Christians around the world. This may, very well, bring a bad name to Christ and to Christianity. In fact, there are probably not that many people who truly believe Mr. Camping and follow Him. But, because of this bold prediction and our interest in such things, it will be national news. The Bible would call Mr. Camping a false prophet. He predicted the world would end in 1984. The Bible says that if someone is a true prophet, then their prophecies always come true; otherwise, they are a false prophet.
Here is my simple understanding of what the Bible says:
I have studied the Bible all of my life. I have been a follower of Jesus from a very early age, and have gone to Bible college and seminary. That doesn't make me an expert, but it means I have studied, in depth, what the Bible says about the end of the world. In the general grouping of evangelical Christians, there is much debate, even, as to how the events will unfold and the order of such events. For example, will Jesus come in a Rapture, where all Christians rise in the air, meet Him in the clouds and go to Heaven with Him? Or, will Jesus come right to earth, to set up His 1,000 Kingdom reign? Most agree that Jesus is coming back a second time (the first being His incarnation as a baby 2,000 years ago), to set up His Kingdom and to judge all.
So, as I have read the claims of Harold Camping, who is predicting the end this Saturday, I cringe. Many people will look at his claims as coming from the general group of evangelicals, representing hundreds of thousands of Christians around the world. This may, very well, bring a bad name to Christ and to Christianity. In fact, there are probably not that many people who truly believe Mr. Camping and follow Him. But, because of this bold prediction and our interest in such things, it will be national news. The Bible would call Mr. Camping a false prophet. He predicted the world would end in 1984. The Bible says that if someone is a true prophet, then their prophecies always come true; otherwise, they are a false prophet.
Here is my simple understanding of what the Bible says:
- Jesus is coming back, to get His followers, which will then begin a long list of events to take place, including the final judgments for all people, either to Heaven or Hell
- No one knows when Jesus is coming back (Jesus said that only the God the Father knows)
- Nothing else has to happen, from our perspective, before Jesus returns. The Apostle Peter wrote that the only reason Jesus has not come back yet is because God is loving and patient, waiting for others to trust in Jesus for their salvation
- The fact is that Jesus could come today, tomorrow, and yes, He could come Saturday, May 21st. He could also come next week, next month, next year, or a hundred, or thousand years from now. The Bible says that a thousand years to us is as a day to God. We feel like it has been 2,000 years since the promise was made that Jesus would return. To God, it has only been a couple of days!
- We are to live our lives as if Jesus were returning today. When it comes to practical application, this is the key. I am to live my life, today, as though Jesus were coming today. My priorities, my attitude, everything, should be done with the thought of how I want Jesus to find me living, if today were my last day.
Live for God's glory today; and as the Bible says at the end of Revelation: Even so, come Lord Jesus!
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
John 13
Today, May 8th, I preached from John 13. In reading and studying this passage of Scripture, there will be many questions come to people's minds, some of which we will not have time to answer during today's message. I know one of the issues that people will be wondering about is the timing of the Passover, as mentioned in John 13:1 and following. We don't have the time in the message to deal with it, and it is not crucial to the main point of the passage. However, since it will probably be on the minds of many, I wanted to include some information here. This information comes from Robert Thomas, Stanley Gundry, Harold W. Hoehner and John MacArthur.
"An apparent discrepancy exists at this point between John's chronology and that of the Synoptic Gospels. The latter clearly state that the Last Supper was a Passover meal (Matthew 26:17-19; Mark 14:12-16; Luke 22:7-15). John 18:28, however, records that the Jewish leaders "led Jesus from Caiaphas into the Praetorium, and it was early [Friday morning; the day of the crucifixion]; and they themselves did not enter into the Praetorium so that they would not be defiled, but might eat the Passover." Further, according to John 19:14 Jesus' trial and crucifixion took place on "the day of preparation fro the Passover," not the day after the eating of the Passover meal. thus the Lord was crucified at the same time that the Passover lambs were being killed (cf.19:36; Ex.12:46; Num.9:12). The challenge, then, is to explain how Jesus and the disciples could have eaten the Passover meal on Thursday evening if the Jewish leaders had not yet eaten it on Friday morning.
The answer lies in understanding that the Jews had two different methods of reckoning days. Ancient Jewish sources suggest that Jews from the northern part of Israel (including Galilee, where Jesus and most of the Twelve were from) counted days from sunrise to sunrise Most of the Pharisees apparently also used that method. On the other hand, the Jews in the southern region of Israel counted days from sunset to sunset.
That would include the Sadducees (who of necessity lived in the vicinity of Jerusalem because of their connection with the temple). though no doubt confusing at time, that dual method of reckoning days would have had practical benefits at Passover, allowing the feast to be celebrated on two consecutive days. That would have eased the crowded conditions in Jerusalem, especially in the temple, where all the lambs would not have had to be killed on the same day.
Thus, there is no contradiction between John and the Synoptics. Being Galileans, Jesus and the Twelve would have viewed Passover day as running from sunrise on Thursday to sunrise on Friday. They would have eaten their Passover meal on Thursday evening. the Jewish Elders (the Sadducees), however, would have viewed it as beginning at sunset on Thursday and ending at sunset on Friday. They would have eaten their Passover meal on Friday evening."
Another interesting side note, in this passage, is to consider the conversation between Jesus and Judas Iscariot, and the possible seating arrangement during the meal. This information comes from the Life Change series, in the book of John; and from the commentary by Leon Morris:
"The usual arrangement was to have a series of couches each for three persons arranged in a U round the table. The host, or the most important person reclined in the centre of the chief couch placed at the junction of the two arms of the U. The guests reclined with their heads towards the table and their feet stretched out obliquely away from it. They leaned on the left elbow, which meant that the right hand was free to secure food. The place of honor was to the left of, and thus slightly behind the principal person. the second place was to his right, and the guest there would have his head on the breast of the host. Plainly this was the position occupied by the beloved disciple.
We might have thought that Peter would have the place of honor. But he seems to have been too far from Jesus to whisper a question himself (13:24), and he could scarcely have mentioned to John if he was behind Jesus, who was behind John. Judas was near enough to receive a piece of food from him (13:26), so he may have had the place of honor. He was the group's treasurer (12:6; 13:29) an important role, and Jesus may have been making a subtle last appeal to him."
"An apparent discrepancy exists at this point between John's chronology and that of the Synoptic Gospels. The latter clearly state that the Last Supper was a Passover meal (Matthew 26:17-19; Mark 14:12-16; Luke 22:7-15). John 18:28, however, records that the Jewish leaders "led Jesus from Caiaphas into the Praetorium, and it was early [Friday morning; the day of the crucifixion]; and they themselves did not enter into the Praetorium so that they would not be defiled, but might eat the Passover." Further, according to John 19:14 Jesus' trial and crucifixion took place on "the day of preparation fro the Passover," not the day after the eating of the Passover meal. thus the Lord was crucified at the same time that the Passover lambs were being killed (cf.19:36; Ex.12:46; Num.9:12). The challenge, then, is to explain how Jesus and the disciples could have eaten the Passover meal on Thursday evening if the Jewish leaders had not yet eaten it on Friday morning.
The answer lies in understanding that the Jews had two different methods of reckoning days. Ancient Jewish sources suggest that Jews from the northern part of Israel (including Galilee, where Jesus and most of the Twelve were from) counted days from sunrise to sunrise Most of the Pharisees apparently also used that method. On the other hand, the Jews in the southern region of Israel counted days from sunset to sunset.
That would include the Sadducees (who of necessity lived in the vicinity of Jerusalem because of their connection with the temple). though no doubt confusing at time, that dual method of reckoning days would have had practical benefits at Passover, allowing the feast to be celebrated on two consecutive days. That would have eased the crowded conditions in Jerusalem, especially in the temple, where all the lambs would not have had to be killed on the same day.
Thus, there is no contradiction between John and the Synoptics. Being Galileans, Jesus and the Twelve would have viewed Passover day as running from sunrise on Thursday to sunrise on Friday. They would have eaten their Passover meal on Thursday evening. the Jewish Elders (the Sadducees), however, would have viewed it as beginning at sunset on Thursday and ending at sunset on Friday. They would have eaten their Passover meal on Friday evening."
Another interesting side note, in this passage, is to consider the conversation between Jesus and Judas Iscariot, and the possible seating arrangement during the meal. This information comes from the Life Change series, in the book of John; and from the commentary by Leon Morris:
"The usual arrangement was to have a series of couches each for three persons arranged in a U round the table. The host, or the most important person reclined in the centre of the chief couch placed at the junction of the two arms of the U. The guests reclined with their heads towards the table and their feet stretched out obliquely away from it. They leaned on the left elbow, which meant that the right hand was free to secure food. The place of honor was to the left of, and thus slightly behind the principal person. the second place was to his right, and the guest there would have his head on the breast of the host. Plainly this was the position occupied by the beloved disciple.
We might have thought that Peter would have the place of honor. But he seems to have been too far from Jesus to whisper a question himself (13:24), and he could scarcely have mentioned to John if he was behind Jesus, who was behind John. Judas was near enough to receive a piece of food from him (13:26), so he may have had the place of honor. He was the group's treasurer (12:6; 13:29) an important role, and Jesus may have been making a subtle last appeal to him."
In the DVD: The Gospel of John, that we are watching during our message series, has a woman who is playing the part of Mary Magdalene. In the scene for the Last Supper, she is in the room with the fellas, and it just seems kind of strange. I figured that people watching this video would be thinking about that, so I thought I would address it here. In fact, over the next few chapters as Jesus speaks with His disciples, before He is arrested and dies, she is there with them.
This is one of those artistic licences we hear about, where a movie is imagining what it might have been like. The fact is that we don't know for sure; and the reason we assume no one else as there is because the passages usually do not mention it. However, the reason it is plausible, and that we don't know, is because the Bible does tell us, very briefly, that there was a group of women that travelled with Jesus, ministering to His needs and the needs of the group. But, we forget about that and don't really think about it, because it is not often mentioned.
The key passage for this fact is Matthew 27:55,56 - "There were also many women there, looking on from a distance, who had followed Jesus from Galilee, ministering to him, among whom were Mary Magdalene and Mary the mother of James and Joseph and the mother of the sons of Zebedee."
Friday, April 29, 2011
IT - a book review
IT: How churches and leaders can get it and keep it, by Craig Groeschel, 2008.
When I was on vacation, I had the opportunity to do some more reading than normal. One of the books that had been on my shelf for some time was this one: IT. I really enjoyed the two other books I had read from this author: "Confessions of a Pastor" and "Chazown". So, I was looking forward to reading this one, but just hadn't taken the time the past couple years.
I would highly recommend this to any ministry leader in a church; and especially pastors. I like Craig's humor and humble writing style. It was very interesting for me, as it relates to being the right kind of church leader. At this time in my pastoral and private life, this book was motivational, encouraging and challenging. Let me share some of my favorite quotes with you:
When I was on vacation, I had the opportunity to do some more reading than normal. One of the books that had been on my shelf for some time was this one: IT. I really enjoyed the two other books I had read from this author: "Confessions of a Pastor" and "Chazown". So, I was looking forward to reading this one, but just hadn't taken the time the past couple years.
I would highly recommend this to any ministry leader in a church; and especially pastors. I like Craig's humor and humble writing style. It was very interesting for me, as it relates to being the right kind of church leader. At this time in my pastoral and private life, this book was motivational, encouraging and challenging. Let me share some of my favorite quotes with you:
- Where did "it" go? Instead of passionately caring about people who didn't have Christ, members started to grip about how the church wasn't all that they wanted it to be. Instead of people sacrificing for the cause of Christ, people appeared to be consuming, not contributing
- I can't tell you exactly what "it" is. Part of what makes "it" it is that it defies categorization. It won't reduce to a memorable slogan. "It" is far more special than that. It can't be learned in a classroom. Yet even though "it" can't be taught, "it" can be caught.
- When a church has "it", lives are changing, and everyone around knows it. The only thing constant is change, which it-soaked people seem to thrive on.
- So, you may ask, what is "it"? The best explanation I can give you is this: it is what God does through a rare combination of these qualities found in his people: Passion for his presence; a deep craving to reach the lost; sincere integrity; Spirit-filled faith; down to earth humility; brokenness
- Ministries that have "it" always have a clear vision. The people know the vision, understand the vision, believe in the vision, and live the vision
- To have "it", you'll have to choose not to do everything. Those who attempt to do everything always lose it. To be great at a few things and experience "it", you'll have to say no to many things.
- The team with "it" loves each other. Not only do they minister together, they do life together. What they have is more than friendship. It's something that God gives - more of a partnership of people with deep love committed to a single mission. You're more than friends. You're a team.
- Those with "it" know how to fight. When I talk about a fight, I'm referring to shutting the doors and fighting fair in private. People with "it" know how to say what's on their minds, get it out in the open, and not walk out of the room until the issue is settled. Once it's resolved, they act publicly as if the fight never even happened.
- At our church, we encourage people to do anything short of sin to reach those who don't know Christ...With-"it" ministries are filled with people so passionate, they're driven to become innovative. They'll become like others or do unusual things to reach those who are far from Christ or to help those who are hurting.Like the four men who broke through the roof to get their crippled friend to Jesus, motivated believers don't see obstacles. they create opportunities. Instead of saying, It will never work, they say, What if this does work?
- [WARNING: if you are easily offended, don't read this next quote]: You push forward a new idea or proposal you're passionate about. A fast-paced discussion leads to an upwelling of support that seems to reach critical mass. And then, in one disastrous moment, your hopes are dashed when someone weighs in with those fatal words: 'Let me just play the Devil's Advocate for a minute'...After making that seemingly harmless statement, the person feels free to blast your idea to smithereens. Your new idea will face resistance. It may or may not work; but don't let the devil's advocate kill God's plan. And when someone does try to take the devil's deadly role, tell the devil he can go to hell.
- The "it"-ified ministries that I've observed fail often. They're led by aggressive, do-what-it-takes, thick-skinned people who are willing to make mistakes. They're not afraid to fail. They don't know what can't be done and are willing to try things others think aren't possible
- If your ministry has become focused on the already-convinced, I'll bet that your ministry doesn't have "it". Many of our churches unintentionally turn their backs on those who need Jesus most. We focus inward. Do whatever it takes to make your ministry a place that welcomes those who don't know Christ.
- Have you noticed that new believers often have "it"? They're "unreasonably" excited about Christ. They think God is always speaking to them. They see everything as spiritual. They believe Jesus might return soon. Everything they do is focused on him. They have "it".
It is my desire to have "it" and keep "it". I want to honor God with my life and ministry; and I want to be a part of a church that desires to reach people for Jesus, sacrificing everything to do it. May God bless as we pursue Christ sincerely. May he give us "it".
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